How can I stop getting attached to quickly?



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PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 8:58 pm 
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I'll be honest I get attached to girls I've meet really quickly because I don't have much choice since I didn't start my PUA journey just yet. My problem is the fact I met them, have fun, get a connect, make out and from there I start getting too sticky. Its in my personality and happend to me a couple of times. It usually ends up in them not talking to me or backing off. Not cool.

So what have you done to stop sticking to girls so quickly ?


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 28, 2012 9:29 pm 
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1. Experience
2. Whenever you feel like you may come across as too needy, back off, and concentrate on other HBs.

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Google "pua abundance mentality"


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 29, 2012 8:35 am 
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This used to be one (of my many) problems with women. But I fixed it. You just need to force yourself. Here's how:

Remind yourself that she's probably not "the one"--if you believe in that. Remind yourself whenever you find yourself thinking of her.

When you two are together, make sure you end all kino first. Keep it playful, and don't go for too much too soon. If you're kissing, pull away first. She will be left wanting more.

By doing these things, you're using a kind of reverse psychology on yourself. Normally, you would want to keep making out and move to better things, but by stopping it before she gets a chance to be "the stopper", your subconscious mind thinks "well, she must not be that incredible". And her mind is thinking, "this guy is incredible. no guy ever stops until i make him".

Finally, remember. Just because you've hung out a couple times and made out or even had sex, it doesn't mean you're dating. Learn to embrace this period where you have one girl and can still go and game other girls without feeling guilty. It will help with your clinginess and open up tons of new options for you--your game will definitely improve. Women can smell when a dude has a chick waiting for his call.


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