New here - Can you help with this situation.
Hi,
I'm new here and would really appreciate some advice regarding a girl I met.
We met on an online dating site. We decided to meet for coffee. During the date she was blushing, seemed really interested in me, and even asked "so what do you think" but I dodged the question. I've been around enough girls to realize when someone is looking at you with attraction but maybe I was wrong - maybe it was like the movie 500 days of summer and I was reading the wrong signals. Or maybe something happend that turned her off.
Anyways, I called her a few days later, no response, so she texted me right away and we talked briefly by text and I asked if she wanted to go out again. She said ok and i was going to call her later that week to confirm. I called and texted her about 4 or 5 days later to set something up and I got the cold shoulder with a lame excuse and she didn't even offer another time. After that things got worse - the day after I didn't hear back I emailed her and I asked her if she wasn't interested and told her that I was deleting my online profile and good luck with her search and to text me... no response.
I feel stupid saying this but on the looks scale of 1-10, I might be out of her league - but I was definately into her. Also, even though I deleted my profile, I can still see when she was last online and she is ALWAYS online and has checked my profile several times. Maybe she is addicted to online dating?
Now, I haven't contacted her since (just over 2 weeks). I think I may have came on way too strong. I've setup dates with other women since, but do you think I have any shot with this girl? Should I contact her again. I was orginally thinking no way she's not interested... but then I was thinking maybe if i contact her and say something charming and try to be confident and persistant... ahh Any Advice? Is nc the best way to go?

Your mistake is that you waited too long before setting up a second date. You went 4 days without talking to her and that's long enough for her to lose interest... No matter how interested she may have been.

Online dating is a little tricky because girls are flooded with messages... EVEN THE UGLY ONES. So she most likely replaced you with another dude with the snap of her fingers. Also, on a first date you always want to make physical contact. Her blushing was your green light to fucking touch her and eventually kiss her. Had you done so, and scheduled a second date within a short time span OR AT LEAST kept in touch with her, you'd have gone on a second date.

My advice is to forget about her. You're toast. NEXT.

Also, from my experience, the attractive girls on dating sites always have a problem or two that make you go "Ooooh... THAT'S why she's single AND on a dating site." But I suppose it's possible to find a gem.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I think it's time to move on as well. I think twice everytime before I say this, but sorry. I think you showed too much interest. She therefore saw you as easy to get, and didn't wanna bother. My suggestion is that if you really like this girl, let her go for some time. Come back in 6 months and start again.