Hey guys so I'm new to the pick up scene and the forum, I'd like some advice on how to handle this situation.

So I met this girl at work and she caught my eye from day 1. the problem comes in with her bf of 2 year.Things are hitting rock bottom with them tho and she runs to me all the time.

So she messed me around 1 night when I was suppose to take her home so she said she would make it up to me. So we went and watched a movie and after IOI after IOI I kissed closed her and on our way home she said that she is scared to be alone and spoke about how she enjoys how I treat her. How her bf is a fool and all.

So her mood did a 180 today, after I asked where i stood she said that she liked me as she said the previous day. She said she was going to break up with the bf but not tomorrow or anytime soon because she wanted to clear the air or something and she didn't want to mess me around and that she would like it if i stayed until she was over it basically so she could commit but i didn't have to stay if i didn't want to.

so it was a positive msg but after that she was bleak and short after. Did i get her thinking about the bf to much, is she playing me or am i over analyzing?

I'm seeing her tomorrow so how should I handle the situation?

Thanks guys

Don't over analyze, Don't move slowly, Don't let her waist your time. She may be just mad at her BF, and is stirring the drama pot!

If you don't have your sexual vibe down and you're not moving blazing fast, you'll end up with dry dick, and a pissed off dude on your trail.

Escalate things and see if you can move girls that are flirting with and interested in you, and if you can't. ..... move the fuck on. There are plenty of other women you can meet who won't be nearly as much of a pain in the dick.

She gave you opportunity, and had a clear intention, now she has had time to think, and a confused mind tells her all kinds of guilt crap.

If you get that opportunity again....CARPE DIEM!

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Cool. She is attracted to you very much, but what happens next depends entirely on you (not her). Your next move is key. So listen very carefully.

1. Never ever again ask her about where you stand with her. She DOES like you, and she'd probably ditch him for you... REGARDLESS OF WHAT SHE SAYS.
2. But you don't give a shit about that. At least, act like it. The way to convey indifference is to avoid the topic altogether and wait for her to bring it up.
3. If you haven't responded to her suggesting "you wait for her" tell her the answer is "maybe, maybe not. We'll see." Keep her guessing. She may get worried you won't wait. But if you tell her you won't wait, that will be putting pressure on her. Avoid that. If you tell her you'll wait, then you're basically an AFC and a huge pussy giving the control to her. You don't want that. But don't tell her "maybe, maybe not" flat out. Only say it when she brings it up.
4. In the meantime, flirt with other bitches so she gets jealous and understands that perhaps you won't wait around.

Now go get her you big bad motherfucker.

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Thanks guys.

So how should I approach her in the texting game and when I see her?

Dude u gotta keep your badass personality intact. Don't go too far cuz she's already been sweet and shit, tellin u she likes u and all. Don't get too cocky but show her you're not to be pushed around. As for the waiting thing, I guess the advice before me is great, you should stand on a "maybe" point.

I'd tell her in a fun and no pressure putting way "It's hard to decide, and I don't really know what to say on this situation. But I guess we'll see what happens. I don't wanna wait for the possibility of something happening, so I guess I'll have to know about your decision before I have mine. I don't see much point in thinking what to do since I have no idea where this will go."

Feel free to calibrate this, everyone. Havent scrutinized it in detail so I might be wrong.

"She said she was going to break up with the bf but not tomorrow or anytime soon."
I'd say hell no to waiting. Who does she think she is, the queen? My advice would be to try and fuck her, if she declines because of the boyfriend, move on.

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