Let me start by saying that I am a student, virgin, and that I have no RL friends I could go out sarging with. But I am not your typical virgin either. I also understand that dating is for tools, and I read Neil Strauss' The Game, and several other books on body language, social behaviour and NLP. Also, this post will contain a bit of actual field report.

Dear Gentlemen,

I just got home from my maybe 2nd date ever, and I failed it. I work out and compete in sports, I dress fashionably and I come from the middle class. My parents tried to raise me to be socially successful, but I always preferred the computer/book to people. Nobody knows that I am virgin, and people actually believe I get laid a lot. I am tall, I have an athletic phsyique and I behave confidently. I don't go out. I used to go out for a while intensively, but I always got drunk and never laid. I don't talk anymore to the people I used to go out with.

I met a girl online and went on a date with her. She looked worse than me, for which I feel even more of a gigantic tool now. I told her online I didn't get laid for 6 months (I never got laid), and hinted I was looking for sex but was open for whatever may come. She was also a STEM student, and we talked a lot about scientific stuff, she said she was into it. I took her for a drink, and then for walks in the park when the bar closed down, including sitting on bench, but I never had the opportunity for a k-close. I managed to make her laugh a lot, did a lot of kino, and whenever the conversation would stop, I would stare her in the eyes and smile. She also did kino back, so I guess I did alright on this part.

At the peak of a dry scientific discussion I brought the Jealous Girlfriend routine - and STILL it worked like a charm! I also did a false time constraint later when she pretended to be losing interest, and it worked too! I told her I had to get up early tomorrow for training with a training partner (which is sorta true).

Now the disgusting part:
She talked a lot about sex, and I was also pushy about the topic hoping to make her horny. She told me how she "picks her men" and how she has plenty of people to have sex with. She had a pretty cheesy tattoo on her shoulder and "maybe" other tatoos too. When I asked her how many guys she had sex with, she told me 5, but after quite a while of thinking, and I could imagine this number to be 10fold, seeing how she talked about sex incidents. When I asked her about something more intimate, she told me how she barely knew me, she told had sex a week ago. She also told me she lost her virginity to her bf, after 1 year of dating. After sitting on the bench for a while, she said how she needed to go home because she had an important appointment (Saturday night!) and I wasn't because of me. We parted on the train station, and I kissed her on the cheek.

I feel like she is a Cluster B, Histronic whore, and I fucked up for good anyway. I don't want to date her, befriend her or anything, is there any point in further contacting her?

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY:

I don't feel like this online dating is gonna do any good. I feel totally inadequate when it comes down to seduction, not "worthless", but like a medieval knight on a ww2 battlefield. What should I do? Where can I go out ALONE and sarge?

I admire your work guys, and I never wanted to ask for your help. But this just the straw that broke the camel's back.

Sincerely,
Max

The thing with online chicks... is that they're there to GET SOME DICK.

You fucked up because you were acting like a little chode, she wanted the dick, and you were probably too caught up in your head during that date.

Anyways brah, things are fine. From reading your post, I'm pretty sure you can become a straight up pimp by the next year. You have the right mindset, you'll just need a little guidance, you can ask me for help anytime or signup for my coaching.

Run some day game... go out to your school, approach approach approach. Don't expect to get laid right off the bat, but use it as reference points for future interactions.

Go to parties, go to bars, go to clubs. And yes you can go to these ALONE. Solo game is where you can make GREAT improvements. Stay away from the books, they'll just cause a lot of mental masturbation.

Good luck brah

Wooohooo!

Guess what? I laid a HB10 yesterday (Note: the girl I failed to lay last date was a 5-6). It was a surreal exerperience, and my mind feels blown. I wanted to write a report when I came back, but I had a stomachache and was very tired, and I don't consider this a real field report. I am gonna make it short because I can't be bothered to go into detail.

I met her online and she liked my bodypics. She was several years older than me (under a decade though ), and was apparently already looking for somebody to fuck, so I didn't have to "game" much. She asked me out for drinks. I acted cool, I replied IOD with IOD and IOI with IOI, I didn't get "into my head" like last time. Thanks god she did most of the talking, because the only routine I could remember was yet again the jealous gf. When she said she wasn't looking for sex, I turned away and looked around and acted uninterested. When she said men only want to fuck her, I looked at her unbelievingly (although she is fucking hot!). I made totally random points just to neg and tease her, but I gave a compliment back when it got too far.

We had a lot in common, which is another point that made this game much much easier. At the end she said it was good to have a spontanous conversation like this, and she liked how I was an okay-guy and not some creep, but maybe we could do something sometime else. I ignored it, and acted desinterested. When we were to part ways I asked her "so that's it?", and she talked about how she had stuff to do etc. I just said "okay, I'll go then, it's all the same for me" and managed to convey a perfect feeling of "I couldn't care less". Then she of course invited me over to her place.

I could kiss Neil Strauss' bald head for this, I would never ever know how to handle a situation like this. On the last date I was dressed like somebody who wants to convey his status, yesterday, I was dressed like a cowbody who doesn't give a fuck.

I also learned coitus in a matter of seconds (I wachted online tutorials for kissing and porn), it seems like this is genetic after all and doesn't need to be extra learned. She believed I get laid a lot, I did her like a workout and she came at least once. I won't go into details, but there was saliva all over the place. She said she didn't have sex since spring, and got extremely wet. She also said she wanted to meet me again.

Although she didn't look like somebody who has AIDS, can I theoretically contract it if there is a lot of oral and kissing in between? Also, I couldn't get my dick fully errect (errect enough to fill her out), and I didn't come at all (after hours of sex!). How serious is this? I am an introvert, and I sometimes have slight homoerotic phantasies... could I be gay?

*edit*
Also: How do I learn cunnilingus? I did something, but I have no idea if I did it right (yes, I do know i need to aim for the clit).