Man..

No lie.. I got a bad case of smiling depression.. My outer game is good.. but my inner game is nerve racking.. Really feel like I'm shit on the inside like I'm worthless but I don't show it to anybody..

I can talk to girls and charm them (Kinda, really when i want too) But sometimes I get emotionally attached without even knowing it.. Like a bad case of oneitis (I think thats what it's called)

I lack investment skills which makes me lose connections with females.. And I always start out strong but seem to fall off.. I guess I'm bad as closing

Anyways, what do I read and what do I do to figure out how to get my inner game better so my confidence can sky rocket and what do I read to get into the game for talking to females

I have had a bad case of this when I first started the game. (Im still AFC please keep that in mind) But when I did these things, it really helped and my game SKYROCKETED!!


1) Accept that you dont like things about yourself, and CHANGE THEM!!
Its not enough to say "I dont like how Im shy around people". GO OUT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! (Talk to random strangers, Start conversations with old friends, Take a ad libbing class.. ANYTHING)

2) Find hobbies
When your passionate about something, it makes you feel good about yourself to discuss it. Im into music, sports, and computers. (I'm like a nerdy musical jock)
Once you find things you care about, you strive to get better at them. This improves inner game.

3) Make a list of your perfect girl.
List out everything you want your perfect woman to have, and look for her.
It makes you look like your screening for women, and not picky.. WOMEN EAT THIS SHIT UP!!! and once more women come into your life.. You start to slowly lose "oneitus" for every woman that actually texts you back.

4)Go to a gym.
Workout.. The better you think you look. the better you feel about yourself.

This helped me with my inner game.


Good luck bro!

-AFCME123

@AFCME123

1) Talking to random strangers? Oh god.. Idk if I can.. but I'll try. I'm only 17 and I'm a senior in high school so I guess talking/meeting new people would be cool.. but Closing? (Getting them in bed) How do I succeed at that??

2) I got multiple hobbies.. My number 1 is rapping.. Music is my heart and soul. Without that I ain't got shit in life. I'm gon start focusing on it more if It can help my inner game

3) I don't know if I have a "perfect girl" But what do you mean by screening for women instead of being picky?

4) I work out. I have a weight training class in school that keeps me in shape. Supposedly, exercise is a great way to be physically and mentally healthy so I'm going to start taking weight training serious also.

PS. I Also have a bad case of One Itis right now.. With a girl who I'm pretty sure likes me? Maybe.. But she has a boyfriend with an on-off relationship.. How do I beat that?

I need feedback people!!

Start here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QHrCFXGl ... r_embedded

then go here:

http://www.systematicattraction.com/

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