When I go to clubs, my tipp is to alternate period of high energy (dancing on the dancefloor, approaching chicks physicaly) and low energy (being at the bar, performing verbal approaches).
And I think the point is not direct or indirect (you can calibrate according to the situation, although I think direct is more ballsy), but to incorporate the mindset that you're THE PRICE and that she wants you. The words then follow automatically.
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Also if I was to say one of those examples and it backfired, how could I maintain value and leave?
Answer: Just don't give a shit! You're the price, remember?