I just want to start this off by saying my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and have been for a year. She just got on birth control yesterday (from Planned Parenthood). She called me after she left, telling me that they gave her a depo-provera shot (which would take 7 days to go into effect), 2 morning-after pills, and 16 condoms.

This evening, she said she wanted to give 5 condoms to her brother (who lives with her grandma) because "he needs them and doesn't have money." I asked her why he needs them, since I know he has had no problems getting condoms in the past (he once pulled some out of his pocket to show me his preferred brand of condom). I also asked why he couldn't go to Planned Parenthood himself to get them. This made her angry. She told me that her parents wanted her to give her brother some condoms. I didn't care though; I told her I wanted to count all 16 condoms next time I see her.

Since the beginning of our relationship, we agreed to give each other our Facebook passwords. So, this evening while reading one of her Facebook messages with a few friends, I noticed that she told them Planned Parenthood gave her 24 condoms! She didn't say this to merely one friend, but TWO.

Thoughts about approaching this situation now? I haven't told her that I read those conversations yet. And it would be nice to know if she's deceiving me NOW rather than in a month when I fly across the country to see her.

seems a litlle shady to me... idk bro

Obviously there's something up, but just so I know where you stand: what do you think might be going on? Are you thinking she's cheating on you?

Why did she go there to begin with? If she's in a LDR you two obviously aren't having sex very often, right?