There's a girl from my team I really like, we're regularly going out, but theres never really sexual tension. But when I text her we're flirting..

We went out last week (partying), and preceding to that we were texting:

her (starts talking): Can't wait untill we go out!!
her: What are we going to eat?
me: You may cook for me
her: yeaahhhhhh
me: what are we going to eat? :p
her: uhmm
*back and forth texting*
me: ooo, you wanted to make a romantic dinner
her: yeah (L)
me: don't get anything into your mind :p
her: :'(

later texting:
her(starts talking): Do I need to take a bed or anything?
me: got one,
me: bring a pyama so you won't have to sleep naked!
her: haha yay!


I don't have a clue if she likes me or not. What do you guys think???
I know theres plenty of fish in the sea, I'm pretty new to pua and regularly picking up girls (didn't do a f-close since I started pua yet)

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i think she into you mate, you rocked the conversation where you said "don get anything into you mind" a good push pull effect, continue with that!

i think you should go for the kiss next time you see a opening! or at least look after some IOI's, like her touching her hair, biting her lip and such... and try when you feel the mood is right lean in for the kiss, if she moves away, just laugh a little a say "i smelled something weird, i just wanted to make sure it wasent you "

i think its a great line, to make sure it dosent get very awkward, just remember to say it with a glimt in your eye and a big smile, so that she dosent get mad... i used it on my last date we laughed a lot about it

good luck mate

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Thanks, the point is I've known her for years. and if she isn't onto me I might ruin the friendship..

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"One is only limited by his own beliefs." - Clanbadboys

i believe thats a risk you have to take, if you wont anything to happen...

but you can always play it out like this and say "i find you very appealing and f course you are also attracted to me, so why dont we give it at shot" and if she rejects you, play i cool, and suggest that she becomes your wingman instead, since she dosent want to become bf and gf!

but its up to you, but dont expect the girl to make the first move." aint nobody got time for that"

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o yeah, I forgot to mention I was using kino quite alot. She didn't really respond to it, but she didn't mind it either.

for example: she was sitting sidewards with her legs towards me. I placed my hands on her legs and she didn't move away.
Also in the club, we were trying to get past some people. I gave her my hand and she held it to follow me.
I don't know if these signs good/bad since we've been friends for ages.

Thanks for those who responded already

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"One is only limited by his own beliefs." - Clanbadboys

she is definitely into you but as you mention yourself, it could be friendly gestures... i think you need a game changer, to make her look at you in a different way, if you are concerned about her only thinking about you as a friend... she gives you som IOI's, so if she actually shes you as friends you have to make her see you in a new way. but if shes into for real then go for the kiss... next time you are together look for more signs of interest, and/or apply some kino and push pull effect.

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Attractive is an energy, good looking is a structure.

Confidence is the most important thing!

www.globalman.dk

Go for it, dude. Being in the friend zone isn't THAT bad if you play it right. Keep it flirty, keep her interest high and you've a chance to come out on top but most importantly you've got to demonstrate DHV and let her see you talking to other women flirtatiously. Go nuts with kino on them just as long as your "friend" sees it. Make sure you have fun with it though and you're in no way nervous(After all, you're not interested in them, you're interested in your target seeing you with them). No need to do this every time you're out, once or twice will suffice otherwise you'll send the wrong message(That being "I'm not into you").

She seems into you but some women genuinely are flirty like that just as guys can be with women(Who here doesn't have a girl they flirt with but mean nothing by it? We all have atleast one person we feel comfortable with to flirt with and not care) so make sure you're not so deep in friendshipville that she really is just flirting. Sounds like she wants your cock but follow the golden rule of three IOIs before a close.

Thanks for your responses, I think I'll just try my massage routine. Done it on another girl last week and it worked like a charm. Had my dick inside her before we even kissed...

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"One is only limited by his own beliefs." - Clanbadboys