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PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:46 pm 
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Yesterday I did great without starting my day with the thought of girls just in my mind. I had focus and determination to accomplish my overall business related goal. However, I picked up two numbers that day and kino escalated one girl very well. No k close -not really- and no f close, but for that third girl, I was touching her without thought in semi-sensual ways and had to leave to study and ended the convo by kissing her on the head. She didn't mind at all and even texted me later wanting to hang out. Here's my delimma:

Girl number one was the girl that I told you about last time. The one that was in the library waiting for a computer. I was able to approach her using the ten second rule. i was a little nervous, but in the midst of the conversation it simmered out a bit. I get the feeling that she was more nervous than I was. She would only briefly make eye contact and she was eating food that had a smell to it, so she would lean back very slightly and cover her a mouth a bit when she talked. As we started talking I used this one little thing that I rmr Style did in his book: I asked her to get up real quick and she did, then I sat down in her chair and just laughed at her and told her that I took her seat. She laughed a little but I told her I was jk and grabbed a chair of my own. Anyways, we started talking about art and whatnot and about places we visted. I made her laugh a good number of times and used kino, although I didn't escalate with it (we were in the library again). I'm teaching myself Farsi, and I don't rmr telling her, I'm just assuming that she thought I was since I said hello to her in it in our last encounter. Anyways, I responded pretty damn well, and she said that's very good. You just have an accent. I asked her to say something and she did, in which I responded with "that was pretty good, but you got a little accent. You'll get there, though! She laughed. In the end, I told her we should exchange numbers and go to the art museum together. We exchanged numbers and I asked her when she was free. She said pretty much not until winter break because of school and her thesis, so I told her I'd just see what's going on at the museum around then and hit her up. She said that was fine. However, I texted her within 10 minutes of our talk with this "Hey, long time no see. -Thessius". She hasn't responded and that was yesterday. Even if she doesn't that's fine, I'm super proud of myself in doing well with all these girls yesterday. The second one didn't even text me back. For the second girl, I got her number in a coffee line, but then my phone screwed up as I left and I lost it. I went back to her and poked fun at myself very lightly and said I lost it already! She said, "already??! How bout I get your number.." I said sure and gave it. She hasn't texted me back either.

What can I do better???

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2012 6:55 pm 
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First off, don't worry, don't panic -- you're doing fine. Remember -- if you can get three numbers now, then you can get three numbers tomorrow and so on and so forth. Girls aren't a rarity and they aren't going anywhere anytime soon.

So far as not getting texted back -- I usually follow up after a couple of days just to see where things stand. She could be playing games, she could be testing your interest, she could have lost her phone -- no way for you to know for sure unless you follow up.

The main thing though is not to worry if you don't hear anything from them immediately. Be a man and go for what you want. You can be direct, you can use humor, you can even ignore them for a few days longer while you focus on getting new numbers from girls who might actually text you back.

I would say your response should be based on the personality and the level of interest you saw in each individual girl. Ultimately, though, don't worry about it -- relax and play it by ear. Desperation and fear are your worst enemies with women.

Stay confident and remember what you have to offer. That way, if they don't hit you back you're always clear on the fact that its their loss, not yours.


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