Ok so i met this girl at a party, we chatted on facebook where i found out she likes chinese food, so i told here id take her to this resturant, of which she replied Yes, thad be great.

So now i wonder how can i get something out if this date? Should i ask if she wants to watch a movie at my place aftherwards?

how do i make sure it leads up to at least a K-close? and a seccond "date"?

neg, kino, k-close, if she k-closes with you then give compliments.

aka you are beautiful...blahdeblah.

What I'm learning more and more is that it's all about calibrating. You need to be able to "read" your date and find out what she likes and what you need to avoid doing. It's amazing, simply by asking basic questions about previous guys she's dated you can find out what she wants you to do. Most guys sit there and ask her about her hopes and dreams and her background, but you should really be asking her how she likes to be treated by men. She might tell you that she likes a gentleman who opens doors for her. Then you'll know to jump out in front of her and grab the door EVERY time you go somewhere. She might tell you that she hates guys who come on too strong, then you'll know to avoid going for an awkward kiss close at the end of the first date.

If you get IOIs and kino starts working, then by all means escalate and go for k-close or even f-close. But don't start coming across as needy and begging her to go to a movie after or come back to your place. Be relaxed and non-needy and detached from outcome.

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