So after the turn around with my ex the past few days I've decided to head out to either the bar or club this weekend to work on my anxiety and try to meet some women. Most of my friends in town were my ex's friends so when we broke up, she took them with her. So I'll be flying solo.

Question is when I first walk in what is the best course of action, make a round through the club or head right for the bar and order? I know how my body language should look when I enter and walk around. So when I'm at the bar I assume back towards the bar, do I rest on it? stand up straight? What if there is no room at the bar, what would be another good option?

Am I missing a sticky about this subject?

The trick to dominating a club or bar is to be social the second you walk in. Even before you walk in! Talk to people in line and talk to the bouncers. Don't go for the drink right away. Instead get in there and approach the first set you see, whether they are hot or not. Once you get yourself in social mode it will be 100x easier to continue approaching. Make it a game for yourself and even see how long you can stay away from the bar from the second you walk in.

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I would agree with being Mr. Social right from the outset. When I've solo sarged I'll walk in and casually make my way around the entire bar/club. One walk thru won't hurt anything. That way you get a preliminary overview of the battlefield and know where your possible target sets are. Then you can mosey up to the bar and get your drink. But after you get your drink you need to open the first set you see. And even before you get your drink, if you happen to see some good sets just open them right there on the spot. Notice I said "set" and not woman. Because it may very well be a man that you open. And that's completely fine because you aren't opening sets at this stage in order to get women. You are only opening them to get social value. Men can fill that need just fine. They can also be a safety set you can come back to if you get blown out by other sets, and possibly even serve as a wings and pivots.

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if you post up on a busy bar and aren't ordering u deserve to be punched

Thanks guys, all good advice. I've usually just headed right to the bar and ordered a drink. I'll change my routine a little and see what happens. Still have a little anxiety about the initial Hi, that's why I usually like to have at least one to loosen up.