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1. In online dating out of 100 messages sent how many will end up in your bed (afc vs pua)?
2. In bars/nightclubs out of 100 approaches how many will end up in your bed (afc vs pua)?
3. Day Game out of 100 approaches how many will end up in your bed (afc vs pua)?
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4. In MeetUp Groups and other social gatherings of strangers out of 100 approaches how many will end up in your bed (afc vs pua)?
What Best Strategy for You?
you are looking at this all weird, it's not out of 100 how many will end up in your bed?
that's looking at things from a how can I avoid losing position, this suggests that the way you play your game, revolves around minimizing loss, rather then maximizing victory
more importantly,
1) how soon can you get someone in your bed when that is your goal
2) can you get the type of girl in your bed that you are interested in
3) how often can you re-produce these results
ok, so for all your 4 different areas, there are pros/cons to each
A) online dating, this requires less leg work, less emotional stress for new guys because they use it as a crutch to not have to face their anxieties, in this way, ''mass approach'' or meeting more women, is easier, this is pro
the con aspect however is, way way more guys using online then women, because women generally have options, and the majority of women on these sites are desperate (physically unattractive), or have some sort of issue, and the girls who are attractive recieve 100s of messages a day, so if you think you will use online to date fit, young attractive women, GUESS AGAIN, that will take extreme luck, and you can bet that girl will have a rediculous amount of options to compare you agaisnt
B) bars and clubs, high access to women, costs money, lots of girls only want the best guys in the clubs, they go their to find guys with status, not lowly guys that are on the prowl, clubbing is great if you have status in the club, not so great if you have a weak game and anxiety and don't enjoy clubbing and dancing
C) day game, high access to women, free, girls are often on their way to do something, you have less time to connect on average, have to get to the point more quickly, problem with this is guys with anxiety about meeting women face to face, will find this the most tough, since this sort of way tends to cause the most anxiety and takes the most balls to just initiate conversations with women in day to day life that you don't know and ask them out on dates, in terms of reward vs cost, one of the easiest ways to meet women with success and less BS, also one of the most intimidating
D) social circle, how most guys meet women, gives you a chance to connect well with women without having to show your intentions, women can become more comfortable with you, you get more of a chance if your game sucks, more socially acceptable for girls to date you since they are more certain of your status and the security you can offer them
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What Best Strategy for You?
meeting girls face to face, any time, any place, as long as you have interest in meeting her and the balls to do it, go do it, figure out what you want, and look for it, get to the point, meet as many women as often as you can, take them out and get it done, if you want your success to improve
1) raise your stauts among men
2) meet more women
3) become more confident in what you are looking for and how you intend to move towards your objective