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| GamesSN | PostPosted: Sat Nov 10, 2012 7:15 pm | |
Joined: Thu Nov 08, 2012 3:19 pm Posts: 1472 | | Total newbie here but i'm wondering what the steps are in opening, mid game and closing.
Am I wrong in following these simple steps:
1. Open a set.
2. Kino for sexual attraction.
3. Build rapport by asking questions.
4. Be playful and fun.
5. Neg?
6. Close.
Does this look about right or is it completely wrong. I open but i'm worried that I build rapport before any form of Kino.
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| Snarg | PostPosted: Sat Nov 10, 2012 7:34 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:55 pm Posts: 1273 | | 2, 3, and 4 don't go in any particular order and should be done throughout the entire encounter, although kino should wait until she's a little comfortable with you. Don't wait too long though.
Don't ever neg. It will only hurt you.
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| GamesSN | PostPosted: Sat Nov 10, 2012 8:03 pm | |
Joined: Thu Nov 08, 2012 3:19 pm Posts: 1472 | | Really? I'm always hearing negging is almost a must, atleast in a 2set on your target.
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| Snarg | PostPosted: Sat Nov 10, 2012 8:18 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 11:55 pm Posts: 1273 | | The concept of negging is only meant to bring a girl off her high horse when is way, way, way too bitchy and conceited. It's supposed to give her a wake-up call and show her that you're in control, not her.
The problem is, you don't want a girl who is like that anyway. And even if you did, it's still very tricky to do that kind of thing without fucking up and looking like a dick. There's no telling how she'll take it. It's just not worth it. You should be trying to empower people and give them value, not bring them down.
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| GamesSN | PostPosted: Sun Nov 11, 2012 1:14 pm | |
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