| So I anticipate myself possibly being in an MMF situation in the near future, and my biggest concern is choosing the other guy. So let me break down the scenario between me and my partner, then the possible other guys.
The Girl (S) - she was a casual ex from earlier this year, she broke up with me, no contact 3 months, she's back at my school and we've been FWB since. It's essentially an open relationship without a label - she spends the majority of her time at my place, the sex is good and frequent, and AFAIK neither of us has even fucked anyone else in well over a month. She slept with a couple other guys beginning of semester (and I another HB) but we've transitioned into this near exclusive thing. There's some fucked up history, but I generally like this girl (and it seems she likes me back), and there's some potential for an LTR, but mostly I like things the way they are. I don't really trust her to be exclusive. We're both on the lookout for something better right now.
Guy #1 - N : N is a casual friend of mine for about 8 months now. He's in an open relationship with his girlfriend, and I actually made a previous topic where they were a foursome candidate but his girl declined. S met him a couple months ago, and she hangs out with him/his girlfriend without me (their place/dorm room) and sometimes they all come over here. Now the kicker, is she has a big (mainly physical?) crush on this guy and I could easily see him running away with it. He and his gf are close to a breakup anyways, and both N and S have directly expressed interest in each other. Eventually, it's probably going to happen whether I like it or not.
Guy #2 - A : A is a close friend of mine, I've known for years. He actually slept with S way before I even met her, and he was one of the ones early this semester. I'm not concerned about S favoring him at all - he's much more of a "backup" to her, she never liked him that much. Not to mention, as a close friend of mine I can communicate well with him but I'm concerned it might also be a little awkward in the bedroom because all three of us know each other so well.
Guy #3 - R : R is a casual friend of S's, they had been hanging out when I started talking to her. R travels a lot, and would have to visit from out of town - a big plus in the event of "losing her" since it's what kept them from ever even having sex or getting attached in the first place. I've never met him.
I think the third guy should be mostly my choice, since she's basically choosing the third girl for FFM anyways. Also, what about location? In case shit goes awry (great potential with any threesome) I'd rather it not be at my apartment / on my bed.
What prompted this topic is a conversation my partner and I had last night, about how her (slightly less attractive FEMALE) friend is willing for a threesome with us in the very near future (in exchange for drugs - please don't judge). This prompted a "You said you'd do an MMF if I got you your FFM" so here we are. I also sort of had a FFM with her and and her other friend J a few weeks ago, although technically it wasn't a real threesome since once I started fucking her friend, she curled up in the corner and pretended to sleep - I didn't actually switch girls until 3 hours later. As far as my original "agreement" it was made when her and I were actually dating, and her interest level was very high - it's much more ambiguous now, but my word was already given.
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