This will probably seem like very strange problem to most of you guys... well it's not really a problem, I'm just reporting what I'm up to. I made out with this incredible girl last night who I from now on will call E-cup (for very fortunate reasons). I'm pretty proud of myself because I had everything under control. I was making out with her on the dance floor which is unusual since I can't dance, my solution was that I would just turn her around when I didn't feel like kissing and just let her grind off me while I quietly dry humped or thought about what assignments I have due next week. Then when I did feel like kissing I just flipped her back around. Genius!

Anyway I have been chasing E-cup for about a week and evidently there was quite a lot of tension that exploded out last night. I know she is well into me, firstly because she was making out with me literally in the centre of a packed dance floor in the presence of at least 100 people, including a few of my friends who took too much enjoyment out of the show for my liking. Secondly, she is intensely friendly on Facebook and not just in chat but where the PUBLIC can see, needless to say I found this jaw dropping. Thirdly, her friend has shown me some texts between them that are pretty conclusive.

My dilemma is whether the same push/pull rules still apply. Should I try to keep myself in control of the situation by pushing or should I just return the interest and charge at E-cup like a frenzied animal and be careful not to break too many bones on the first night?

As I have said repeatedly on this site I'm not looking to fuck but for a girlfriend, that probably complicates it a little. Will pushing too hard for sex trigger the slut reflex? It has happened to me before so I am wary.

You guys probably will think I'm a fool for asking questions in such a good situation. Maybe I'm not asking questions but just bragging in a very clever manner. Either way comments would be greatly appreciated!!

Thanks guys! - B

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Now, bring me that horizon!

Don't pull away too much, but don't push too hard either. Remain calm. Let her work for you. Reward her for chasing you and punish her (remain aloof) when she does something you don't like. There's no reason to go to an extreme either way if you're already sure she's into you. Why adjust your strategy if it's already working?

I have been in this situation many times. I can tell you that the times I thought it was ok to give her back what she was giving me went well for the first few weeks. To the point that you think "wow I can for-go everything I've learnt and actually be totally open with this girl etc" Bad move, every time i have done this it starts off great then hits a brick wall at the 3-4 week mark. Then you realise you should never have left the game you have been teaching yourself for years. By then it is too late. I now dont make that mistake anymore. Dont do the same, keep your cool and keep to what you know. It has only been a short time and as we all know girls flip overnight without warning.. Good luck with it and stay cool and you will be alright.

Too calculating and to gimmicky forget about all that shit, calibrate according to how she is reacting, you are too much in your head...

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