ok so i met this girl through a friend when we were hanging out, a week after...We started to hookup and have been hooking up for about 4 days now... no sex yet, jus intimate touching and making out.... so yesterday i ask a good friend about how he knows her... he tells me this is his friends girlfriend... who has givin her a friendship ring to symbolize their love( i guessed... not 100% sure, pretty much he gives her a ring to symbolize something... not engagement tho) and before when i was holding her hand and asked about her ring she quickly answered that she got it as a gift from her grandmother and took her hand and pulled it out of mine....

o and for the record she caught me by surprise with our first kiss...

now she seems interested when we are together, (always leaning closer to me, makes up excuses to touch me, and a few other stuff) but when we text she sends me back 1, 2, or 3 word texts most of the time except one night where she wouldn't stop texting me after i got home and i wanted to sleep but she wouldn't let me with her txts...
now should i stay with this girl?
or should i have sex with her then end it?
and do you think that her having a boyfriend could be true?

I would go for it, this will be purely sexual and no relationship will come of it but fuck it thats ideal. The bf is failing somewhere you might as well be the guy to reap the rewards.

Women do not cheat when in perfect relationships and if it is not going great should she be with him. More to the point whose body is it and does he own it?

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hmmm point taken... so you think i should try to make her my fuckbuddy?
now one thing... when we txting she is pretty cold but not when we are hanging out together, should i take that as an IOD or no?

I am kinda lazy so I never read into texts, they can be read differently to how they are written (I use them purely logistically). As for trying to achieve something I think your best bet is to just go with the flow, that way you won't be treading on the bf's feet and she will be able to shape things (forget the you must be in control, any outcome will be good in this situation and by letting her chose you stand less chance of screwing her plans).

Keep on doing what you are doing

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awesome sounds like a plan