Ok guys maybe someone can help me out with an answer to this!

So iv met a few girl where iv gamed them in a club its all going great I kiss close them and in some cases they ask for my number/ contact me and it almost seems a done deal.

Then you try and arrange a meet up just the two of you, like round yours or to go out together . . and thats where it all goes wierd!!

They seem happy to meet up with me in a club, let me close them in a club, invite me out with there friends ect ect . . but not any "alone time" which means its hard to get a lay

whenever I suggest it its like they pretend they never heard it

Could anyone shed some light on this? Do they just like the chase and want to avoid getting drawn into something serious?

Many Thanks x

The main reason they are avoiding going back to your place or somewhere isolated is because you are telegraphing your intent to isolate them and get them alone at your place.

Here's a tip for you. Whenever you are making arrangements with them to get them alone, specify the reason for doing it as being ANYTHING other than "hooking up". Ask them back to your apartment, but tell them you are really tired and just want to cuddle and pass out. Invite yourself up to her place and tell her that you just have to take a piss and then you'll leave. And also don't leave the reason open to interpretation. Don't just ask her to come over to your place or ask to come up. She'll just assume it's for sex. Always state the reason and make sure it has nothing to do with fucking.

I can already tell that you are way over eager to try to isolate these girls to bang them, and they are picking up on that. Then you try even harder to get them alone, and in true form that pushes them away even more.

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