Well, might come of as a strange question to some. But very often when I'm out, friends or known people of me will start messing my hair up. Didn't think much of this but it has started happening regulary, so I'm thinking WTF

For example last time I went to a club, a good friend of mine just started playfully shaking my hair. Time before that a semi good friend just randomly placed a cap, well on my head.

Result is hairstyle kinda ruined. As I said, l didn't think of it much. But lately felt like its happened too much to be random.
It's usually good looking guys that does it too. I'm asking the experts here, cause tbh I have no idea.

And another one is, why do other guyse tend to feel me up, for like 10 sec? Like you would run your hands over a womens body on the dancefloor I have a girlfriend and none of the friends and people I knew who did it last time we where out are gay.

I'm not a expert and am interested in what others think of this.

My view is that when a girl messes up a guy's hair that has been styled, it is either flirting or she is doing it to see your reaction. If you react by pulling away and being all annoyed because she messed your hair up. It shows your either vain or insecure.

Would you say your hairstyle is normal and not peacocking or uncommon?

If a good looking guy does it, pua's would call it amoging. If a guy feels you up, this can be them 'sizing' you up, trying to get a reaction, physically handling you etc. Also amoging because it seems that these guys are not doing it in a truly friendly way.