| Getting out of the Friendzone is not easy. Well, actually it's not too hard, but often requires a lot of time!
There's two ways to get out of the Friendzone that I know of.
1. The Ladder: Girls have two ladders. One for people they see as friends, and one for people they see as potiential mates (in a sexual way). Now, since both these girls have Friendzoned you, you are on the Friend Ladder ofcourse. One way to get out of the Friendzone is to climb so high up on the Friend Ladder that you can make a jump, and try to hit the other ladder. This fails like 9 out of 10 times though, and is not recommended. What happens if you don't make it? You'll pretty much start far down on the Friend Ladder again, and will have to work your way back up to try a new jump.
2. The Freeze Out: This is the easiest, and preferred technique. When you do this, you will completley freeze them out for a longer period of time (about two months should be enough). When you reinitiate contact with them you'll have to have changed. If you come across as the same guy you were two months ago, you'll be back in the Friendzone before you can say "elephant". First you have to change something physical about yourself. Start working out (if you're not allready doing this), get a haircut or change your hair in some way, new clothes (preferrably a new style) and a new social circle or two wouldn't hurt either. Start escalating from the very first second you meet them, kino, sexual tension etc. and state clearly by your actions that you are not here to be their friend.
To be honest, you'll have to have a MAJOR oneitis if one of these methods actually would be worth the bother. I've never applied them intentionally, but I've harvested the fruit from it when seeing girls that previously LJBF-zoned me after getting in to game (at this point we usually talk about 1-2 years without meeting them.) As for the Ladder Theory, I've never done it myself, but I've seen it work for a couple of guys in one of my social circles.
The point is, the Friend Zone can't be broken in one night (unless your lucky jumping the ladders, but that usually leads to an LTR, unless there's alcohol in the picture as Florg mentioned.)
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