Someone help me out with this one.im not hideous by no means but im also no magic mike...however i walk around with confidence, but when i make eye contact with a good looking girlshe seems to give me a "whatever" look. I know shes not having a bad day cause she was just smiling and laughing. Im not being the creeper either. But this shite just crushes my confidence because i know im in good shape and not horrible looking. Anyone else get this same thing?

Weird. When making the eye contact try to smile. It is easier said than done, trust me. For some reason people stare sometimes even though they are friendly. I would go out and definitely show those pearly whites when smiling at the girl. Her response should be a smile back, or at the very least a smirk. The whatever look will be weeded out of existence.

i was once told by an ex of mine that my "normal" face is one where i look very serious/a bit annoyed/focused intently on something. I walk around and make eye contact with every single girl i see, i found that i come off as a bit intimidating because i seem like im very focused on something/going somewhere. Trying opening your eyes a little bit more (seems stupid i know) but try to "lighten" up your eyes, like you are laughing about something (but only your eyes show this) it gives a much much more friendly and personable look. Also, dont walk around smiling, just look content and within yourself. Then when you make eye contact with a HB crack a little smile and REALLY lighten up those eyes.

hope this helps and goodluck

Thanks for the tips. I have been told I come across as intimidating to women. Maybe it is my "normal" face. I just dont walk around with a smile on my face. But I will give these a shot. Thanks

I had that problem in my earlier years. (Started Pickup with 22, now I am 28, with some breaks in between) Since then I found that being relaxed with that "half-smile" works wonders. I always think about my favorite comedy show and the face changes by itself.

I guess I should rephrase what I said. I'm not saying that you should walk around with a smile on your face like a cartoon. Initial eye contact may be intimidating but ultimately sexy, but when opening you can't go wrong with a smile.