We're having our one year anniversary with my LTR GF this week and today she sent me this text:

"Bla bla bla... I always surprise you, make you breakfast and buy things for you. I want you to surprise me somehow this week "

She does surprise me and does lots of nice things for me and I've rarely done stuff like that for her. What would you guys do? Surprise her with a Skittles bag or do nothing and say you forgot? This kinda caught me of guard because she hasn't asked things like this before. I don't feel like planning a big surprise for her just because she wants me to.

I was thinking I'll just explain to her I'm not going to surprise her just because she asked me to. Then wait maybe a week or two and do something really nice and special for her.

Duuuuuuuh.

Do this. They fucking love it. One of my exes ALWAYS moaned about not being given enough attention, that I didn't get jealous when other guys chatted her up, didn't get her presents. She said "babe do you even fancy me like cos I get really jealous when girls talk to you, I always get you little gifts when I come around, I always cum first (I hate it when girls moan about this), why can't you do something for me"

My usual response to this is "Don't be silly baby I would hope that you know I fancy you and want to fuck your brains out whenever I see you, don't go demanding surprises. Surprises come to patient girls."

Build up the anticipation for a surprise as it will mean more when you finally give it to her. Hell throw in some bullshit surprises like send her a text "baby come round I have a surprise for you" then "haha just joking " after she replies.

Anyway a good easy one is to hide a single rose under the bed, bang the fuck out of her then when she wants the after-cuddle pull it out and present it. Don't do sweets, chocolates or that kind of shit. Do something new.

Take her somewhere you two haven't been before and don't tell her where you are going. That is essentially all women want when they say suprise me. They want to be whisked away somewhere and lead around by their boyfriend so that they feel excited and special.

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Thanks for the replies guys. Liking your ideas BITmixit. puaninja, do you mean I should surprise her this week like she demanded I do, or wait some time so it'll be unexpected?

I would advise for a Hot/Cold. First make her think you had a surprise, like picking her up unanounced (Hot). Then take her somewhere boring, like grocery ("We forgot Vegetables last time") then take a course towards home (cold) only to pass by and end somewhere fun. (Your choice, hot) Oh and dont forget to "punish" your little girl for ordering you around.

An anounced surprise is not a surprise. So break her expectation.