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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:17 pm 
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Not even sure if that's what it is, this has never happened before, and now the past few weeks for some reason I'm getting ignored when I contact to set up date.

This is now 3-4 different girls, met them out, ran good game, solid attraction and I guess the comfort could have been better but at the bar main goal is attraction and a hook, keep her wanting more. In all cases girl game me number w out my asking, and said call me. 2-3 days later when I call or text I get nothing.

I am stumped and could use some help w this, really pissing me off... Wondering if I am waiting too long


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:22 pm 
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Try hitting them up sooner, 3 days later a hot chick could have met a lot of different guys. And also women are more emotional while guys are more physical, meaning if we think shes hot well always be down to fuck her but just because she thinks your good looking doesnt mean that her attraction will be there for in the 3 days from now especially if youve just met because her feelings for you are more in the moment and situational rather than always wanting the dick. So hit them up the next day but keep it light and flirty. Your trying to bridge her feelings for you from last time you met until the next time you meet, this is easier to do sooner rather than later.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:43 pm 
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This didn't happen before and one of the girls was the next night, she would let me leave the party I was at w out getting her number then I hit her up next day and nothing... Must be a hole in comfort or something

This last one was bad since chic was hot and totally into it, that was Thursday, I hit her on Sunday , seems standard. Are there proven methods to avoid this?


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Here's the thing, bar/party girls are floozies. They get a million guys' numbers everytime they go out. They can't possibly call all of them or keep in touch and meet up with them all again. The more prolific a pua becomes, the more he reinforces this behavior in women. Because it becomes this thing of accumulating numbers and creating these very brief social interactions that are less than memorable for the women. If you are getting a lot of numbers and no follow up, it's probably because you are focusing on just getting a lot of numbers and not working the set properly while you are in it. If you were doing it right, you'd only get one number that night and you'd also go home with her and f-close. Then you wouldn't even need to call her, you could just nudge her.

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It sounds like you didn't really spend enough time getting to know each other. At the end of the night your just some dude that she knows nothing about. So after you get her number get to know each other so she doesn't feel like your a total stranger.

If you want to keep the interaction short, text/call her the same night or the following day.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 7:28 pm 
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2 situations happened that the girl came over to me after we drifted apart at the bar and would come find me and say, I need to go but take my number and call me... There must be something more to the buyers remorse, one of my friends said likely they had bf and were caught up in the attraction phase, I am at a loss as to why this is now all of a sudden becoming a theme. Next chic I'm going to call right away, this just lest make sense - kinda frustrating to put all the time in and fell like mission accomplished only to have it fall apart


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 7:52 pm 
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I agree with ninja, I think they say getting a #close requires the same amount of compliance from a girl as a hug. Did you k-close these girls? I would suggest:

1. spending more time seducing and attempting to k-close at least
2. when you take a number - immediately txt them something eg "you're a muppet!" or something relating to your convo - that way their memory of the fun interaction improves (more than likely these girls were tipsy/drunk)
3. also what do you text em? eg "heyy, was nice to meet you the other nite, are you free for drinks tomorrow" will almost certainly result in a flake! you need to game a little via txt
4. finally try and arrange to meet whilst closing! eg if you talked about diff types of cocktails then arrange a rough bar date there and then hence when you txt it will jus be confirming in a way


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