So, there is this girl which is living in another country, a girl who I regrettably didn't take to bed at our first encounter due to severe time limits (plane departure) and admittedly some LMR as well which I didn't know how to handle with at the time. The thing is though that this girl is also the one that eludes me the most intellectually, of the ones that I'm currently "seeing".

After my departure, I've asked what her schedule looks like, without appearing too needy (suggested dropping by briefly in her country as part of my travels, or her coming here; but then she started acting flakey, said she lives for the moment, can't plan that far along etc. - I know the difference between a yes and a no (and I also know that Attraction has an expiration date, so I dealt with the rejection in a funny and relaxed way, commented jokingly, some friendly formalitites, ie it's not a big deal, "Time to move on" I thought to myself and meet some new women.

The thing is though, whenever I initiate radio silence, she gets back to me - often implying that she misses me alot. She has explicitly stated she doesn't like to express her interest, as she fears it'd scare me off. Whenever I get back to her, she is busy (working and studying at the same time), but still says that hopes to hear from me soon. Last I heard from her, was some two days ago, she sent one of them "I miss you" texts, which I didn't reply to until today, because I was really busy, which I also apologized for (if I'm unavailable for some time, I usually apologize - not trying to be a dick here).

My question to you, is just how should I proceed with this girl? Downright being friendly with her, and stop pushing for a meet? Just disappearing completely (which I think some would've suggested), and then contacting her, whenever I happen to drop by in her country again? Or should I ask her again, a second and last time, what her schedule looks like, offering several alternatives? It has struck me that I could be dealing with an attention junkie (wouldn't want to use the w-word). Either that, or she's just too scared or nervous, not knowing how to "deal" with me.

Thanks in advance guys for any answer you might have!