22 y/o white guy in Japan. Where to start?



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2012 8:41 am 
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Hi guys!
I just found out about PUA and I'm having a blast reading up on it.
First a quick introduction: I'm an average looking 22 year old white guy from Scandinavia. I was raised in a very conservatory way and have always turned down chances to get girls if they weren't "wife potential", and even then I would not sleep with them. Now I'm 22, still a virgin, wanting to do some major changes in my life.

Last month I arrived in Japan, I'm going to stay here for one year doing an exchange program at a University. I want to take this opportunity not only to learn about the country and the culture, but also as an opportunity to improve myself as a man.
I've been out a couple of nights and even though I haven't gotten any action I do have some advantages and some dis-advantages here:
- I speak both English and Japanese pretty well. My English is by far better than Japanese, but I can do day-to-day conversations pretty well in Japanese. However, I really struggle in night-club / loud music situations. I really don't know what to do in those situations, because the language barrier hits me hard.
- I get a lot of attention when I go to clubs, just because I'm white, tall and have blond hair. However, I really don't know how to go from there. I really struggle with opening a conversation in Swedish, and doing so in Japanese would be even harder.

I'm very new to this and I'm clueless on where to start.
I have some material ("The Game", the laid guide), but I'd appreciate some tips on how to put this stuff into action.
I'd love to hear some tips from guys with experience working pickup abroad / in Japan / with a language barrier.

Thank you guys so much for this forum.
Kind regards,
DinoZ


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Swift dirty escalation.

Never been to Japan but have a decent ammount of experience with Asian/Jap chicks, you have to be firm, you have to take the lead, don't take no for an answer, and fucking escalate!

Or if you're lazy, just go direct, say "Hi I'm a viking you're hot, come back to my cave"

White guys clean up over there, just go direct man.

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Words ain't shit. It's all body language.


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don't take no for an answer
Not that, as it sounds a bit rapey.

But this:
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White guys clean up over there, just go direct man.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2012 2:23 pm 
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Thank you guys for the tips! I really appreciate it!
I went out solo tonight just to get some practice. I went to a pretty popular bar, and to my big surprise - I was the only foreign guy there. There's usually a lot of foreigners at bars here in Japan, but since I went out today (Sunday) there were only Japanese people there, probably taking a beer after work or something.
Anyway, I tried talking to a lot of random people, and to be honest, I failed really bad. I got their attention, I made them smile and they seemed to have fun, but I didn't know how to take it further.
BUT I realized that by talking to a lot of women, made me stand out and two beautiful women actually approached me (which is RARE in Japan, they're frickin shy!) and started talking. I did the "I'm new in town" thing, speaking to them in English at first until they started panicking because of their lack of English-skills, then I switched to Japanese, freaking them out a little. I got the hottest one's number, so I'm happy about that for my first try.
However, I really would've liked to separate her from her friend / take her to a love hotel from there, but I just didn't know how to do that. The two were so attached to each other, so it was actually pretty hard to close in on the hottest one just to get her number. I have no clue how to do the split, especially when I'm on my own, because they seem really, really loyal to their friends over here.

I have so much to learn...
My next goal is to do the approach myself!


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You should check out some of Clozer's epic threads. He's a member who is also a white guy living in Japan (and getting lots of pussy.

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