So I met this girl in September which immediately struck me. She is a friend of a close (female) friend. We immediately got in contact reciprocally, as in we would both text each other and meet up basically every day (we study at the same faculty and she is a year ahead of me) and talk and have a good time. Little did I know she had a boyfriend at that time and that things were not going well for them.

I ignored the situation and kept on contacting her as much as she contacted me. After some time news were she was single and that night, with a bunch of friends, we all went clubbing. She and I danced basically together all night and she was onto kissing me but I refused given the circumstances (not wanted to hurry things). However in the car back home we cuddled, so i assume everything was cool about it.

Few days passed and we went out a night around uni, nothing too special. And I took that opportunity to clarify the situation of me not kissing her and to declare the obvious that I like her. She did the same but told me she was confused after the recent brake-up and I took it with great ease and calmness. Sunday (after a week from the club) I took her out and we made-out all night until I took her back home.

Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday we kind of escaped uni to go smooching in private and she used to be all like: I miss you when I am at home, I think about you and such.
Day after she said that she needed to sort out her prievious elationship as she still was confused and was getting overly involved sentimentally with me and did NOT want to use me to get over her ex, so we went on standby mode.
She kept texting me and I answered, I rarely wrote to her. Tuesday she said that I better move on for the time being as she doesn't feel like commiting right now and wants to be alone some time, I let her go. She kept saying she was sorry for getting my hopes up high.

Silly enough I asked a friend to find out what she was up to, and this friend got caught and she got really pissed off at me and called me on Sunday saying not to meddle in her business and that between me and everything is over (she was furious so I kind of let the whole phone call slip).

From that call onwards we have almost no contact a part from a hello when I see her and she sees me. She still is feeling uncomfortable around me as I gathered from a recent dinner we had with friends.

So now I find myself troubled. Was I a rebound? I don't think I was since she actually asked for a standby instead of keeping up the story. Do i have future chance with her? We really had it going when we flirted for a good month and she always kept saying how much she felt great with me and stuff.

I was thinking about giving some cool off time, let her sort herself and then maybe re-enter the scene from scratch and try and construct a solid relation.
What do you guys think?

P.S. Her boyfriend kept showing at her door and calling her when we were seeing each other and I had advice given me from our common friend during the time and I am afriad the thing slipped from her tongue and I came off as immature

You handled things well.

1 you stayed calm and controlled at all times.

2 you didn't force yourself on to her but replied when it was appropriate - she had plenty of time to make up her mind.

3 you stated clearly that you had serious intentions.

So, screw that chick. She has commitment issues as is common nowadays. Move it along.

4. Don't worry about "OMG I was a rebound for this chick so now I seem immature to random others." Do not give a single care to this, at all.

Thanks for the heads up!
Problem is that I do understand that she just came out a stressful break-up after a 2 year story with her ex and so it's fully comprehensible that she does not want to commit at the moment and I really have nothing against her taking time.
The question is, how do I re-enter the scene? Should I ring her in a month time? Should I wait for her to show up? She was really pissed at the telephone.
I am just confused on what is to happen next as I like this girl and would not want to give up just yet.
Cheers

Yep, ring in a month. If she hasnt' sorted out her mess by then it's not gonna work.

And in the meantime should I do anything in order to gauge her interest (as I am afraid she could lose it) or should I simply ignore her completely and just keep on with my stuff? Should I have any interaction a part from the usual "hello" when we cross roads?

Go on with your own stuff. This is a contaminated phase of her life. If you are present in this phase, the contamination will rub off on you.

Cheers mate. So, to sum it up, I should ignore her moment being, go about my own business and in case try and re-contact her later on in a month time more or less?

Exactly. Personally I could not sum it up any better.

If you are interested, you can read my thread too in this forum, and tell me what you think about it. I would appreciate this very much!!

here-vp720044.html#720044

When I get back to contacting her how should I do it? I do not want to sound desperate or needy but I really care about this relation and would not want to bin it, yet.

We shared a good dead of emotions and she probably turned back as she noticed she was getting overly attached to me after such a short time (and after the recent break up with her ex) she probably did not want to think of me as a rebound.
Do you think I might have a fighting chance in the near future or distant future?

Klad, do not contact or try to get back with this girl. Over time, you will contract the virus called "one-itis" so it is best to let this one go and look for pastures greener. Since you haven't had sex with her yet, I can understand your desire to sleep with her, but it will NOT happen, and you will basically wound up hurting yourself. I've been there, done that.

I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who are better looking than her and with who you can find emotional ties.

Good luck, and let me remind you again, forget this girl.

Yeah, but Klad, you wrote this:

"We shared a good dead of emotions and she probably turned back as she noticed she was getting overly attached to me after such a short time (and after the recent break up with her ex) she probably did not want to think of me as a rebound."

In my thread you can see it´s the same deal with Alexa.