Hmmm well i was hosting a party last night, great night had beautiful girls coming over and fun characters, i have been single for two weeks so have been remerged into the game again.

Well there is this beautiful foreign girl from work who came to the party, we had a great time dancing, and one thing lead to another, with just us both dancing, grinding really close in a club. It was intense and we were at this for two hours, occasionally chatting to each other, we didn't kiss though, even though she was kissing my neck.

I had to leave suddenly because i didn't have the keys to go back home, and had to meet people outside my home. So she went back home on a taxi, i took her number and asked her if she liked sea animals and wanted to go to an aquarium as a date, she seemed uncertain about coming, which i found odd, as we were in the comfort stage firmly, and she seemed a bit offended that i was leaving her to go somewhere else.

Well I'm not sure how to play this because i work with this girl, but i would like to pursue going out with her etc. Should i text her today to see if she got back okay last night, outside opinion would be helpful, as I'm reemerged to the game again now.

Unfortunately you have a few things working against you. You meet her in a high energy environment which probably pumped up her emotions which is great for sexual escalation but, despite what you are indicating, horrible for comfort. She might very well have no interest now that the energy is removed especially if she has BR from kissing you in public and grinding and shit now that shes sober.

In any case I wouldn't go from club near make-out and grinding to aquarium seahorsey date. Just text her in a couple of days and have her meet you for drinks, and try to close correctly, your ill-planned logistics ruined you last time, dont let that happen again.

I'd text her and play the gentleman and make sure she got home okay, which is obviously a rhetorical question at that point. I may try to shoot the shit for a while with her, drop some DHV spikes, and maybe hint at a date possibilty without asking her outright. That way she'll develop some more rapport, she'll think you are nice, and she won't sense that you have a clearcut agenda. I know it's hard to go that route since everyone is usually like ESCALATE, GO SEXUAL, F-CLOSE!!!! But I think slow playing them can be very advantageous, especially in scenarios like this with a co-worker and a girl whom you are going from high-octaine to low-octaine environments with.

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Thanks for the advice, yeah i texted her seeing if she got home okay, and she hasn't texted back yet.
It's true though, asking if she wanted to go to the aquarium was a shit move, i should have proposed gig or something, however i didn't act clingy and displayed that i am not too bothered about the outcome of the situation.
so recovering from this, i should pull back a lot and use DHV spikes. As for the high energy environment i do speak to her at work quite a bit, so I'm used to her in that environment.
I just can't help but feel its going to be awkward tomorrow at work when she is there
How can i demonstrate high value and hold back if I'm spending 16 hours with her at the weekend. ?
I would like to be able to show higher value and less interest, especially since my mate has posted a picture on Facebook with me and her in, while writing "(insert my name) requested this !"

Just a quick update, I'm going into work tonight, and not sure how is the best way of dealing with this, take in mind everyone in work knows everything what happens, or at least they think they do.

This coworker we both grinding like crazy for a couple of hours in the club, i was quite rude in leaving her after the club because i had some important business to attend to, so i left her in a taxi, and she didn't text me back yesterday when i asked her if she got home okay. I suggested us going on a date sometime, which i know was a bad move, but i felt like i was DHV throughout the night that this cock up would be pale in comparison.

Eventhough this girl is a 9/10 i am not concerned that much about pursuing this, i just don't want to get in trouble with my boss, or have too much of a tough time at work because of it.

I have two hours til i have to leave !