this girl in my class is giving me IOIs e.g standing really really close to me and like playing with her hair with her back infront of me and she looks sometimes and she started smoking because she saw me smoking a couple of times wtf
but she has a bf who i think is quite close to her
and no we havent really actually talked to each other
so wtf is up?

First, you have to talk to her lol.. Yeah that simple.. if she keeps giving IOIs and touches you, fuck her asap

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i know i have to talk to her but i have AA and shes always with her friends which makes it worst its ok if shes alone i still get the AA but not as bad

I'm not trying to be negative, so I'll tell you right now to go for it and just talk to her. But it's worth stating that a lot of girls have a very flirtacious nature. She smokes at the bus stop and flicks her hair, she smokes around her boyfriend and flicks her hair, and she smokes around you and does the same thing. Only difference is that you are attracted to her and instead of actually gaming her to find out if these are legitimate IOIs, you are just speculating that she secretly likes you as a form of wishful thinking.

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Stop overanalyzing. She is just flirting. Unless she is totally down you won't know for sure. I have recently started gaming girls with bfs and sometimes you will hit a good girl who is perfectly happy with her man and shut you down. Then there is the other types who will bad mouth their man and you are given the green light to escalate.


But you should escalate anyway and really find out where you stand. Saves you time and mental heartache. Possibly blue balls while you are it.

I have a very similar situation too. Attraction at both ends at first glance. Started sitting next to her and talking. She asked me if I wanted to study with HER. I text her to study and she ignored me. She said she wanted to learn to surf. So I asked if she wants to go on Saturday, and ignores me and answers the next day. But every time I see her its IOIs and common interests is all we talk about, even hits me when I tease and neg her. Problem is she's got a bf. The dude waited for her when class got out. I was walking out with her and he was right there, he went to kiss her and she hesitated while in front of me. Even introduced me to him, but never said hey this is my boyfriend ******. Don't get it and I am mad for this girl.

Ive stopped texting her ever since she ignored me when I asked her to come surfing with me.

I don't know if I should keep at it with asking her to hang out. Or just drop it and hope they break up. But every Monday and Wednesday is heartbreaking and I feel like my emotions are being played with (NOT COOL!). Also I want to stay away from Friendzone. We have become quite close and we sit next to each other. But how do I continue to let her know that I dont wanna be "just friends". What vibe needs to be expressed? And what are some good actions I can use?

Ive been told by friends to just play it cool and don't seem to needy (reason why I stopped texting). But also go for what you want (which would mean continue texting) Hope this helps but again I'm confused myself. I'm sure there is a much stronger method.

the thing is her bf and her are quite close

and dude above me man u shud just ignore her for a while maybe neg her and shit maybe shes just a cocktease i dunno man but goodluck

yah thats what ive been doing. since my post, her and her bf were fighting. she asked me "when you were with your last girlfriend, did you ask to go through her phone to find out who she was texting? or did you ever want go through her email?" She had to stay in and prepare for an exam the next day, but she asked me twice what I was doing after class for Halloween night. I told her I was invited to go to a club, which was true. I see her interest growing.

I don't know how to take it from here now that her bf and her are arguing. I mean I feel a little bad about the situation. But at the same time I can't help to "like what I see". And I've learned to go for what I like.

Should I still lay off the texting? and just socialize with her in class until she texts me outside of school?