Hi. This is my first post so thank you all for reading it!!!

I have a question/problem and I want a real PUA opinions.

Im 32, average guy, thin, relatively good-looking (not a model thou LOL, but very OK).


I'm around 5.53 (1.68 Meters) height. Sometimes I feel this is an obstacle to get girls, even more to get REAL GOOD LOOKING girls. In the western society there is a common believe that links height directly to beauty. Other societies may not see that important.

I've been with girls taller than me, but were exceptions.

What I want to hear is opinions:

-Does it really matter? (to get Model-like girls)
-if yes, how to deal with it?
-should a guy that is a little below average resign to 'certain' girls because the society pays much attention to height?

all opinion are welcome!
thank you!
Dark Munscio

A lot of women won't date a short guy, and your height is not advantageous.

However, I know a guy who's about your height and is ripped. Just, completely jacked. Whenever I hear girls talk about him, they say, "He's short, but my God...that body..." He also has an outgoing personality and is one of the coolest guys I know.

I guess if you're not in shape and have the personality of a dead moth, it'd be a problem. Also, being able to joke about your height is a plus. She'll be looking to see how you react when the jokes come your way.

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Yeah, being below average height isn't too sweet. Realistically, being below average isn't good in most cases.

Honestly though, it's not that important. The way YOU look at it is the most important. If it's an insecurity, it affects your confidence- then it's a minus. If you either take it as just a fact about you, not a positive or a negative, or even better, if you can rock the fact that you're short, then you're going to be well off.

More than enough girls are shorter than 5'5", so it's all good. I'm 6' and I've dated a girl who's 6'. In the beginning of our relationship she'd wear 3-4' heels. It was unusual, but I just felt like one of those old ass rich dudes with a model type looking girl you see on TV; even though she was three years older than me. (We were both still in college)

If it's an insecurity and you have difficulty dealing with it, then yeah, resign to a certain type of girls. If you don't, the whole world is your hunting area. Just make sure you deliver confidence rather than an insecurity any time a girl mentions something about your height.

In any case, one of the things that would work for you is making sure your posture is good- it's a confidence cue and bad posture would emphasize your shortness. A thing I've done is sometimes wear boots with a taller heel. Nothing too crazy, but it adds about an inch which can make a pretty chill difference.

Just remember, it's not about the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

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Thank you both!!!!

I definitely agree. To be 100% honest: It is not an insecurity or trauma at all.... But of course that is something that I'd prefer it to be different.

The thing about posture is ABSOLUTELY right. being a little short also calls the attention a bit so posture really say about you....im a person taht ppl usually notice....

but im concerned bc i moved to US 3 years ago. Im from Uruguay, south america.
Average people are shorter and I think that here poeple are more 'obsessed' about it.

Def no..i do not want to resign....i want to learn and apply everything. Eventually you see model like girls with shorter guys...but yes...those guys need to shine in another aspect...posture...atittude....

Thanks agan

If your normal, any obstacle you have can be over written by a solid identity. That's why the midget from jackass can pull hotties. So work on one.

There aren't that many models out there, so I'm sure you can find other HBs that are good looking and shorter. I met three tall girls over 5'10" at speed dating and only one of them was I even remotely attracted to. A lot of the tall girls are basketball players and have brawny bodies and jacked up faces. There's a lot more to choose from when you don't seek out tall women specifically.

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