So I need a guy's opinion on something :p

What do you guys think when a girl "isn't making much effort". So mostly find this with a girl who I've either just gotten their number or more likely met them somewhere once already.

An example is where she will keep initiating a conversation by text but then really stops making much effort in the conversation. These aren't cases where she's not interested, I can easily set a date to meet.

So reading all the PUA stuff I get the feeling, it's a challenge. I'm supposed to use my tips and tricks get get her to open up and want me... but...

Unless I'm REALLY into a girl, I can't be bothered doing so much chasing. I get the feeling this is what the girl wants. I'm supposed to chase....
But I just can't be bothered if she isn't a 10 to me.

If I initiate a lot of contact she's blow cold, but if I ignore her she'll make contact again.

The thing is, I hate games like this. Especially if I've already taken the girl out, if she's not at least making some sort of an effort, I'd rather forget about her and text the girl who is sending me flirty messages and is fun.

So what is the PUA-thing to do? I feel from all the material I read like my job is to win these girls over, but they bore me to death when I have other options. What do you guys think? Is this an excuse or should I just "next" those kinda girls?

So check it out. Girls like to play games this is a shit test. Give this girl hardly any attention next time you see her. Get her to the point where she thinks ur loosing intrest then give her a little attention. Keep her hot and cold!

As for going to another girl do it but keep this one on hand. Girls have about 4-5 guys they can text given that shit doesn't workout. Why shouldn't guys?

Meh, next

You can't ever really turn girls around who arne't into you, without an extraordinary effort

As you say, why bother. Plenty of girls who do like you.

Don't waste time on time wasters.

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Thanks,
So when I girl is just plain, not interested, I'd agree... unless I felt really strongly about it, I'd rather just move on to the next.

It's when girl ARE into it though but totally play it off like they are not and want you to chase them. In those case, if I show her attention, she'll act like she doesn't want it. If I don't show her attention, she'll look for it!

In those cases, you CAN get the girl, but these girls like to feel like you're chasing them. Infact my last girlfriend was like this but I persued it as I was interested in her.

But to be honest, lately, I find it so draining... I don't expect a girl to fall to her knees the second I open my mouth, but if she's genuinely interested but just wants to make me work for her attention, it's just such a head wreck... I'd much rather hang with the girl who is flirty or fun.

I know girls do this... and its something most guys deal with. I just can't be bothered. I guess the answer is to BE the challenge and make her seek the attention. But if she plays it too much, I just cant be bothered.