A quick one from me, and something that helped me massively last night. I was working in a bar for the first time in my life, I was nervous, I was getting through it and serving customers but I wasn't enjoying it, I was terrified an hour into a 9 hour shift. I knew I HAD to change how I was feeling or I wouldn't get through it.

I went out glass collecting and high fived as many people as I could, I made them laugh, danced to the music whilst collecting glasses (badly I might add, but after the first few high fives I didn't give a shit) I got back to the bar, that 3 minute trip around collecting glasses had completely changed my state of mind. I was able to have fun with customers and create a massive flirty vibe between a co worker, eye contact, smiling, whenever I stood back against the bar during quieter times she always came and stood next to me etc.. etc..

How can this be applied to Game? Well. When you're standing by the bar with a drink up to your chest, talking to youself in your head saying "Dude do something, shes hot, approach her, damn, should have done it, i'm an idiot" and creating a negative vibe and pushing yourself further into anxiety. Walk to the toilet and high five passers by.

Sounds simple and it is, just high fiving people for me at least, lifts me straight up, puts me into the "I don't give a fuck" zone, and you're off.

Good tip , in my opinion confidence is EVERYTHING in the game because without it you might as well go home. Women pick up on confidence and if you look like your having a good time , girls will think your a fun person with a good personality big props for what you did