so this girl from my class came over to my place. we were drinking beers and watching youtube videos on my bed till 3am. i was kinoing, we were holing hands at one point and she rested her head on my shoulder. but then i went for the makeout she moved her head away. then i told her she could stay the night. she said she was gonna walk home. so i walked her to her house and then i went for the hug. but she didnt accept that either. this girl is straight from china though, idunno whats going on? im soo confused. she called me handsome too. i dunno wht to do next. the last thing i did was text her if she got home safe, she said she did. is there a cultural difference im completely messing up or what?

Nope, just require persistence in this case. The fact she didn't want to kiss you yet doesn't mean she never will. Just get her to come over again, caress her, fondle her, ask if she likes it. Entice her. Might probably just be a matter of investing lots of time. You probably made the mistake of kissing immediately on the lips. Always go for like jawbone, cheek, neck, etc, and if they like it they will move their lips closer to yours.

Escalate, do something funny, make her laugh but not by watching some video

on youtube but you actually do something.

Don't make her wait too long for a hug or kiss because she might get bored and leave

the same way as it happened.

Kiss her on the chick first. Then tell her kiss me back and turn your head so your lips will meet.

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