hi everyone,

im interested to know in terms of speaking to girls which is your preference facebook chat or texting? and which do you think produces better results!

so basically i started speaking to this girl and this was before i joined the forum! we would be facebook messaging alot it was all very flirty and exciting stuff, which then helped me with an attraction between us! she was out that night so i gave my number on facebook chat and waited for a text! i recieved a text saying im worthy of your number now am i?

we met up on a night out and she was with her friend i had a dance, chat and an all round laugh and shared some kisses! the next day we arranged to meet up for a drink which actually turned into a night of town in her car we kissed again! texts wer going great seemed in between all fun and playful!

met up 2 more nights out with just me and her she pretty much came out one night even thou she was already in bed or getting ready to! anyways now the texting has gone sour! shes out tomorrow night and i havnt text since last night!

advice: do i freeze her out as she was the last person to text?

to conclude, i have found facebook a more fun and flirty way, although texting was ok for at the start with this particular girl, maybe ive become too comfortable with her?

share your thoughts!

real life > phone > text > social media > e-mail

your goal should be getting her in person above all else, you can create the real mood you want her to assosiate to you

fun, touching, those positive feelings that she feels off your mood, you can actually logistically make sex happen in person, etc.

so many advantages to hanging out in person vs the phone or the internet

facebook and texting are really for convience sake and are more likely to solidify you as a text buddy or a facebook buddy, just use both mediums simply as a means to an end (that end being her and you hanging out in person)

if those logistics can not be arranged then you are just wasting your time on that girl

very true mate i have met several times now and all been good kissed danced and what not its been a week since i seen now shes out tomorrow, my game has to be spot on as my text game has nowhere near been as good as face to face and comes 3rd with facebook chat being 2nd!

so theres what i need to work on really, that said it maybe shes not interested at all but reading my above comment would think differently!

very strange haha! i may have to move on if this be the case, ill see how tomorrow goes and i havnt text back since last night so i will probably keep that up til tomorrow tea time, is that wise?

Don't worry about the texting, you've already kissed. If anything, your lack of action over the last week caused her to lose interest. But it's not too late I think. You want her, she wants you, so take action! Get her to come to your room (or go to hers if need be), make out, and have sex.

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