Hey guys,

So here is my situation. Moved to a new city about 2 years back. Knew a lot of people from back home but that circle has dwindled lately so I actually feel more like I'm in a new city now than ever.

I want to do 2 things:
- Go where I can actually build a social circle; guys & girls.
- Go where I meet more of the women I want.


So for social circle. I play sports and have joined clubs, etc... all the usual stuff. But people are all more acquaintances that people I've gotten to know well. We meet for whatever activity but never outside that. Everyone has their own social circle and not looking to make new friends in their late twenties.
I've looked into joining epxat groups (like myself) or just general out of towners but haven't come up with much... I'm in Boston if anyone happens to know of anything.

Next on women...
My schedule is working long hours, not an environment for being around women.
I come home, go out to do some exercise and then come home tired and repeat the next day.

Where can I go or what can I join to genuinely meet new people and particularly women I'm interested in meeting? Gaming in bars is great and I'm working on it but I want to be happier overall by bringing more people I want into my life.

I'm a little tired of the usual "join a book club", " meet girls at the grocery store" but really? I'm not a book club kinda guy, nor are the women I click with. I can wander grocery stores all day but how often do you genuinely meet awesome girls there? You'd spend quite a lot of time shopping.

What sort of places/activities genuinely help being the new guy in town and being around the sort of people you want to get to know a lot?

Hope this post makes sense, I know a lot of guys here must be working or have worked on the same thing. All advice is much appreciated.

One way to do it is go F-close some random chicks and hang around long enough to get in their social circle, I've done it a fair few times. Best part is you have awesome social proof right off the bat because you're banging one of the chicks in the group, then just lap up some easy F-closes from some of her friends.

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I know what you mean, kind of curious to see what people can come up with, because I'd like to know myself!

Having a social circle is one thing, but if you have low value in the social circle you will get stuff all pussy, but if you have high value you'll get loads.

When you get into some random social circle, if you don't fuck one of the girls early on you risk being low value and you're pushing shit uphill to get it back, so just fuck one of the girls BEFORE you get into the social circle.

F-close random chicks, get into their social circle, have high value immediately, get heaps of pussy. Seriously man works like a fucking charm. If you do it right you can literally fuck ALL her friends.

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Ok,
So I f*ck a girl, she sticks around and introduces me to all her other friends who I f*ck as well and everyone's good?

Come on man, really? That's how regular people build a social circle?

And you'd value these girls and I as "higher valued".


Ok, so any real advice?

No I'm being serious. I move around a lot so I'm forced to find new social circles all the time, and this is pretty much Plan A.

Obviously not every girl is going to let you into their circle or fuck their friends, but there are ones out there that WILL, so go out there and find them.

Dude this method can be a friggen gold mine, if you pull it off just once you'd never look back.

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