So I was doing a bit of day game yesterday, trying to just talk to pretty girls around town, see if I made any good connections.

I'm at the coffee shop I'm a regular at - see this REALLY cute girl walk in (so gorgeous).

I'm a bit nervous, because she's hotter than I usually hit on - but I decide to go for it anyway. Start talking to her, we instantly start getting on well.

Sit down next to her, we chat, talk about politics, science, and a bunch of other stuff.

I ask for her number, she agrees, gives it to me, says she has a boyfriend. I'm fine with that, because hot girls still know other hot girls.

Anyway, we keep talking for like another hour - during which she seems impressed with me and my "motivation", friend each other on Facebook, and we leave (the shop closes) at the same time. She thought I was going with her to meet up with drinks with her friend. I intended on walking away though (which I did) - however before I left, and she thought I was going to meet her friend, she told me to "not mention that she gave out her number" at all. If she felt it was as innocent as we've made it out to be, my thoughts are that she would not have said that.

Anyway, I decide to check out her Facebook to actually see what her boyfriend situation is - it's not Facebook official, which to me, is interesting.

Next, I see that about 3 weeks ago, she wished him a happy birthday, and said "Happy Birthday to one of the most excellent people I know and the best pseudo boyfriend in the world"

What the hell is a pseudo-boyfriend?

Her birthday was a week before that, and he said to her

"happy birthday to the beautiful [name of the hot girl]"


So like, either they're taking it really slow, I think, or he's not that interested in her as a relationship.

Normally I don't game girls with boyfriends, but it seems to me that this would be a perfectly acceptable situation to more or less steal her from him.


Thoughts? How would you all proceed?

Note, this is easily the hottest girl I've gotten the number of (and I'm not great at gaming, but I'm not bad, and I've slept with over 20 girls - so this is saying something)

meet up with her

Any particular venue you'd suggest?

We're both over 21, so we can go to a bar if need be.

I also need to keep my head on straight - this girl is a 9.5 in my book, smart, scientific and about to be graduated.

Psuedo boyfriend sounds strange, especially if she is calling the guy that. Probably some type of long distance relationship or something. I wouldn't focus on that too much.

Don't ask her out for a drink unless you know she likes to go drink a lot, which if she's actually smart, is probably not the case. Take her someplace fun or classy. Like to a comedy show or art museum or something.

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Ninja is on track with how to play it, I don't suggest the bar! Think about the interaction in the coffee shop and how well things had gone, ask yourself would things have been the same if you had met her in the club/bar. Just my thoughts, but 1 on 1 would be better the escalate quickly and get her turned on to you.

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nah, FB says same university (I feel stalker-y here).

And the pseudo-boyfriend thing was public, on her/his wall for his birthday. And she uses love a lot in the few pictures or statuses about him she makes. He doesn't do the same.

If they were boyfriend/girlfriend and he moved away, I would assume they'd still consider each other legitimate bf/gf.

I was considering art museum - especially as it's really close to where she goes to school. I also considering inviting her to play chess in the same coffee house we'd met in and get cheesecake there.

Art museum seemed too "not casual", though.

she called him boyfriend to me, when I got her number. pseudo is on facebook, 3 weeks ago.

nothing official, just a bunch of "I love you you're so wonderful!" comments from her to him.

If he's just playing her, I have no idea why.

She's literally one of the hottest girls I've ever seen.