So here's the situation.

Girl approached me in a club, got talking for 5 min and did a number close, said i would text tomorrow, kiss on the cheek and left.

texted, and since then, got a text CONSTANTLY from her, arranged a date on the wed (yesterday) and on Sat and still texts every 30 min from dawn to dusk like clockwork.

got to the date (I fucked up a bit, was on my phone in my own little work as I was a little early and she approached me, saying joking that I didn't even notice her.. i brushed it off playfully, apologized for being in my own little world, and was nice to see her and she looked great. walked into the bar, was a pretty boring/shitty date tbh, i played it safe like a pussy and just had a chat and learnt about each other, with no awkward silences for 2 hours (not that bad right?) at the end I grabber her hand (first real kino all night and felt a bit awkward) and led her out the bar as she had work the next day and walked her back... however at the door she let go of my hand and grabbed her thin jacket, it was quite cold out and like a jackass i didn't offer my jacket (in retrospect i think i was thinking about the IOD with letting go of the hand) anyway, walked her back and got to my car, offered to walk her back but she insisted she was a big girl and that i should text her when i got home safe, i said likewise and we went home...

So text her when i got home... nothing...

figured she may of been tired and just fell asleep (she had done this a few times already at about this time so.. shrugged it off)

next morning, no morning texts like before, and NOTHING all day

i've text her 3 times since the date,

1 saying i had a good night and got home safe, and to let me know when she got back ok.
2 joking about no morning text like usual, and joked about her blowing me off (as she joked about me doing it to her in a previous text) said i was a little nervous but was nice to meet her
3.
joking about how the date was so bad that it didn't even warrent a response and to let me know that she atleast got back safe.


and nothing all day (considering we have a STUPID amount of texts, made a 2nd date before the first date to see a movie, talked about seeing the movie on the date still and the date was overall pretty positive...

now... all i can think of is that

1. she's a MEGA bitch and just stuck up (doesn't seem like her)
2. she lost her phone
3. she was in an accident :S


now.. she only has my number but i know where she works...

is it creepy to call her at work tomorrow just to make sure she's ok? or perhaps i should text one last time tonight saying that i will call her tomorrow at work just to make sure she's ok / hasn't lost her phone and to just text back if she's just blowing me off?


overall not too fussed if she's blown me off as I learnt alot! (was my first pickup night! and first date that wasn't internet dating in a while) , just found the situation odd

You're being needy. Just cut your losses and move on to the next one, the ball is in her court so wait for her to hit it back if she is going to.

Woah woah woah bro pull back. She has her own life, she'll just think your some weird loner guy who has nothing else to think about apart from her if you keep this up.

The possibility of her being hurt is so tiny as well man. Even if she was hurt she would find it weird that you cared this much already. You SHOULD NOT ask her if shes hurt or ok or whatever.

thanks guys, over thinking things ^^