Has anyone violated this rule of not sleeping with all the girls in a social group? Or is it just me who made up a fake rule?

I haven't slept wih all girls in a social group, and honestly, I think that's quite hard to do. Women talk.

I have slept with a couple of girls in the same social circle though, and gamed a couple of others, and it went quite bad. There was quite a lot of drama around the whole thing, and I ended up not hanging with them anymore. After that I just stopped doing it, because of the bad experience I got. Then again this don't have to be the same for all social groups. I think it's more of an internal thing, what's acceptable and what's not.

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Alea iacta est - The die has been cast

A good friend of mine managed to sleep with about 5 girls in the same social group and I did it with 3 in the same social group, BUT it was during the period of 6 years, there was also dating / relationships etc; and yes, inevitably some drama, but after some time, we're still all good friends. Mixed social groups seem to always exchange partners among them selves somehow, but I wouldn't recommend gaming different girls in quick succession, too much drama, the risk/reward ratio makes it not worth it. Pick one for starters If it doesn't work out, you can slowly move to the next, after some time.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

blah, well thank you guys for sharing your experiences, puts things into perspectives

I've done this many times and often without any problems. If your frame is sexual and not that of a man that is trying to date, it is not a big deal. Yes women will talk and if you are good in bed they will talk about that as well.

People on this forum talk about it as if it was a huge mistake. I can assure you it isn't. If you only have one social circle then yes maybe it can cause an issue but if you are an efficient seducer, odds are you will have many social circles and continuously making more.

In my opinion this can be an efficient way to seduce women. It's much easier to seduce friends of friends then it is to seduce a random target. You already have value in a social circle, if you are very likeable person and as attractive as you can be, you should be getting lots of IOI's from the available women in the groups.

It can be more sensitive, but as long as you tread lightly and don't step on anyone's toes there really isn't anything to worry about.

I've been doing it for years, I take pride in being able to make friends anywhere I go, and yes I infiltrate social circles all the time. The best part about it is if you are cool enough, even the guys in the circles will give you value to the women and actually set you up with them.

It's basic networking, the more friends you have, the more people you know, the more value you have in any social setting. The more opportunity you have.

As long as you leave your target in a better place then when you met them, everything should be fine.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Yeah, I am getting better at seducing but was wary of pushing it by going after my hookup's friends too. I might just infiltrate other social groups and game one girl at a time and later come back once I got my skills down. Thanks for your experience SexAddict..

There are a couple of girls I regularly hang out with that I have slept with, but its fine because there were never any feelings involved.