So I was supposed to meet this HB9 today but she flaked me cause she had to prepare some lame college presentation. No biggy, I just implemented a few countermeasures where I came off as being the yummy prize and she texted saying that she will call me tomorrow night to meet at a club.

Now I just learned that my friends are throwing me a not-so-subtle surprise birthday party tomorrow and I can't really leave my own party to meet up with this girl. However the birthday boy demands sex! Fortunately the party is like 5 minutes away from her club.

So when she calls I was thinking of telling her to meet after the party to do our thing...assuming it's not too late into the night.

This is where I need your divine help guys: how should I suggest this meet up to make sure she doesn't flake again? How can I make the offer irresistible? There's a lot of sexual tension between us so it shouldn't be hard.

I want to make sure she comes alone, and knows why she's coming. Thanks!

And no I'm too busy during the next few weeks to suggest an alternate date.