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| cbplayer | PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:58 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 14, 2012 4:48 am Posts: 19 Location: USA | | Am I friendzoned or overthinking?
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I like a girl
-We've been talking for a month now
-shes very responsive to my texts
-goes a long with my jokes and laughs at most of them
-asks me questions whenever we talk
-is cheerful and happy to see me
-her face lights up when she sees me at times
Anyways, I asked her to lunch and she agreed and we got dinner BUT she came w/ her girls. Does that mean I'm friendzoned ? The lunch went well and we talked and she did ask me questions. _________________ No problem holmes!
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| AmazingArt | PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2012 12:25 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2011 5:17 am Posts: 428 | | Both. You are over thinking and you have been friend zoned. A girl who thinks sexual of you will not in any way bring friends with her on date with you.
The question is "what did I do wrong"?
The answer is you didn't show sexual interest early on. Perhaps you haven't showed it at all. What you should have done is show interest in her right away. As direct as possible. Within a month you should have at least kiss her.
"What do I do next?"
Next you have to go out and game more girls. Meet more people, meet more girls, persist, don't give up. Think about it, if you would be meeting and texting 20 girls same time you were going out with this girl, would you be asking this question? Probably not. So go out and game more girls. Have fun with it. _________________ "Experience is the teacher of all things"
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| cbplayer | PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2012 12:33 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 14, 2012 4:48 am Posts: 19 Location: USA | | Am I at a dead end with her? I told her to get dinner with me. Then she asked if I could get dinner at a certain time and I said yeah. when I got there a saw a lot of her friends. I was assuming that maybe it was just a time that they have dinner as opposed to her "bringing" them along. Is this a dead-end? was she initially interested? _________________ No problem holmes!
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| AmazingArt | PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:48 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2011 5:17 am Posts: 428 | | There is only one way to find out. Take time with her alone and tell her your intention and try to make out. That's the only way to find out. _________________ "Experience is the teacher of all things"
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