recap....

girl from work

over a couple months, slowly spoke to her and got to know her a bit....made her more comfortable with me.

the other day asked to go on break together. we did. i got her number at that time.

i texted a few days later, keepiing it brief and jovial and making her laugh. nothing overtly sexual. then again a few days later, the na few days later again.

last, we were both at work and texting and i felt like i ws doing too much pushing, so i just froze and backed off. that was two days ago, and we hadnt seen eachother since.

with the advice of a few people, i decided to just dive in and ask her out over the phone.

i texted her an hour and a half ago. as follows--

me: "...why are you walking around naked...?" (i had to throw a sexual interest in there, as i didnt want her to be as confused as me)

her: "what are you talking about"

me: "haha. j/k. maybe being hopeful. what are you doing right now?"

her: "laing down about to hop in the shower wbu" (all said in context. she sucks at grammar and punctuation.)

me: "jesus. my prediction was only a few minutes off. im getting ready for the gym, than about to call you in like, five minutes."

her: "lol um why im about to take a shower i have to go to school"

me: "oh stop"

....then i call. no answer, as i predicted. i left a breif message saying that shes probably going to say that shes in the shower. give me a call back. yes? no? ttyl.

i text her--"wimp. give me a call real quick."

her: "hold on"

me: "k"

then that was it. nothing since.

I always fuck things up at this stage. i dont get it. i get confused about what to do, because im an attractive guy (not bragging by any means, just saying what has been told to me for a long time), and i tend to make girls nervous, so i never know if i should keep pushing because theyre just shy, or that theyre just not interested. but that wouldnt make sense, because i always seem to get IOIs, but then i FUCK THINGS UP,

what do i do?! please help. whats my next step with this girl?

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Don't get too needy that will mess things up. Phone game is too much of an emotional roller coaster. I just consider everything said and done neutral. Honestly people live busy lives if she doesn't text you back within 2 weeks move on. Chances are she will talk to you at work and tell you she wasn't trying to ignore you she was just busy.

Thanks for posting, man. What do you mean by "I consider everything said and done neutral."?

I actually did see her at work, and she pinched my side as she walked by me while I was at my locker (it was the end of the night, and it was packed with people. Just setting the scene.) As she has done before. We smiled at eachother and said hey. Then I saw her at the doors. I asked how school was, she said good, we said bye. That's it.

It honestly kinda has turned me off. She is young. Young girls play games. I'm not beat for coyness and games. I'm not chasing her around. Its why I fuck with older woman. There is communication. But anyway, I still want to fuck this girl, so how should I play things? Should I reinitiate hrough text, or wait for her to...? She has yet to text me first. I've always texted first, albeit, its onlt been a handful of times. I feel like I should just fall back, and see if she bites. Ill still talk to her, but I'm not going to ask her out until we have more between us. Yes? No? Thanks again.

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