I'm new to this forum. I've decided I want to stop settling for average girls and stop my one-itis and get with the HOTTEST girls. Good thing is that in the past year I've changed my body and girls have been noticing. Recently this chick that I thought I loved (acted like an AFC whole relationship) screwed me over. I told her to screw off for good and not talk to me anymore. So now I'm trying to bounce back and the HOTTEST girl has been showing me ridiculous signs of interest, and has been teasing me sexually SO much. She's seen me in the gym working out and starting do squats and bending over right in front of me. She also has been giving me a lot of eye contact and always speeds up and walks in front of me when I'm walking to class on campus (she has the greatest as*). I want to go to talk to her but I don't want to mess it up. How do I handle this situation? I can bag avg girls easy but its always the hot girls that show interest first that I mess up with? HELP!!!

Just walk up and neg her and be kind of cocky about it, but also half-kidding. Then get on your phone and walk away like she didn't even factor into your day.

I don't care what else you do, but do not lead on that you like this girl or want to get with her or hook up with her in any way, shape, or form. Not at the beginning stages at least. The most common way guys fuck this up is by telegraphing interest and not disqualifying themselves properly.

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The next step you have to take is to adopt a lifestyle of abundance when it comes to women. Don't get too caught up in trying to use a fishing pole to catch this one fish, now you must learn how to use the fishing net for the big haul!

Flirt with this gym hottie when you can and just go for it, but make sure you're trying to flirt with more and more women now!

You don't have to follow "indirect" rules like puaninja is telling you to do. To tell you the truth that sometimes just causes more problems, especially with your inner game if you aren't already a bit experienced with some success.

Slight tangent, but this confuses the hell out of me. Is disqualification actually necessary, is telegraphing interest not confident behaviour (obviously not in a really needy scarcity based way). In the community this idea is often confused from person to person and I don't get it.

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Stop being a little pussy and go fuck her.

And go get more girls