Hi guys

I've drastically changed my lifestyle from Club Photographer with High Social Status - to Worship Leader in the church with no social status. Also "Zen Habits" kinda changed my outlook on life too.

Is there any good books to read for natural game that specifically deals with Outer Game.

My inner game (self confidence, AA, Alpha Male) is quite good, but I have no Outer Game to back it up.

Also I get stuck with a major issue, I build rapport WAAAY too fast and early. Building rapport comes natural to me. The Cube, deep conversations etc... I do it way too early and I (always) end up in the friend zone.

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Flirt with the sexual limits of standard conversation, when she's warmed, go direct.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

I apologize! I understand most of the abbreviations and slang terms used, but could you elaborate? I feel extremely rusty.

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"Everything you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it" - Gandhi

Just make coversations, words and body language, reasonably sexual (but without being OBVIOUSLY sexual). This will turn her on, when she's ready, invite her back to your joint.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

It should go like this: comfort→rapport→trust→attraction→seduction.

I think you are geting to the trust stage but then it dies there before any attraction starts. Why? Because like you said, you lack outer game. You feel funny and confident inside, but you can't parlay that into results based on your actions. That's what we call a "sticking point". You are stuck in the trust stage.

I realized the reason for this is because most AFC's are too afraid to escalate sexually. They don't want to be perceived as a pervert or sleazeball, so they try to endlessly flirt innocently, hoping that the girl moves in on them, which rarely ever happens. Being able to attract and seduce is what separates a pua from just a regular sociable person. Regular people don't get to fuck 9s and 10s whenever they want. The reason is because they are too afraid to push the envelop and assert themselves as sexual beings with women. A pua is right in the girl's face, touching her, trying to lure her into sexual situations. An AFC is standing back with his hands in his pockets, asking the girl how things are going and hoping beyond all hope that she will eventually start hugging and kissing him and ask him to take her home to fuck.

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