| A lot of guys hear "boyfriend" and they think they need to destroy him and get him out of the way before moving in on the girl. They talk to her about him and try to convince her to dump him and whatnot. But that's really not necessary. If she brings him up and makes a big deal about her relationship, just be like "That's cool, I'm not looking for a hookup or anything I just want to be friends." You basically friend yourself. Since we all know that men and women can not, and will not, ever be just friends, this isn't a big deal.
Now you two are hanging out under the auspicies of friendship. There's no need to address the boyfriend situation any longer as it's irrelevant. Here's the thing, even if a girl friends you, or you friend yourself, you still have to game her to get out of the friendzone. Heck, you have to game her anyway even if you AREN'T in the friendzone, so your course of action is always the same in that respect. That being the case, you then proceed with maybe a little more subtlety than normal, but you still start trying to build attraction and seduce her. When she is attracted to you she will no longer care about her boyfriend. He'll no longer be an obstacle. Then after the fact you just kind of play it off like you couldn't help the connection you two had and it was simply meant to be, eventhough it was part of your master plan all along.
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