Hence the name zWingman.


I have a Girlfriend but I love 'The Game'. Is this wrong?

I met my girlfriend when I was 18 and we've been together for almost 5 years. So I kind of missed out on "single life". Now don't get me wrong, I don't wont to be single again, she's the most fantastic girl I've ever met and I've met a lot working in promotions and modelling industry (dated none) yadda yadaa yadaa..shes amazing.

HOWEVER

I feel like I missed out on something.

I read 'The Game', 'Mystery Method' and had a look at the forum a while back as it fascinated me...(the chase, the sex, the challenge!) and then kind of put it out of my head. That is until recently... I was out with some mates (who have all newly become single) and they were in need of some help, so I used some material I've read to get things started...and BAM! i got every one of them laid and free drinks for weeks (thanking me). I'm not claiming to be a master or even mildly good at pick up, I just threw out some material and it happened to work. What did happen that night though was I realised just how fun, exciting and challenging the game is. I watched almost as if in the 3rd person as the interaction between me and the girls I was talking to escalated and de-escalated, pushed and pulled, was framed and then re-framed. Needless to say ever since I've been hooked.

Now when I go out with my mates I find myself trying to pick-up the hottest girls, AMOGing the biggest baddest and doucheiest of douchebags (Mostly unsuccessfully I might add). But none the less i'm working on it and I love it. When I see a beautiful girl obviously wanting to take me home it gives me a huge rush, but I usually handle it well and re-direct her to the nearest friend or so far at worst realise shes about to jump me and actually have to bail.

The result is I take that energy, that... 'Rush' home and have the most amazing intense sex and incredible times with my girlfriend. Or I get my friends laid.

HOWEVER

I still have this little feeling of guilt in the back of my brain that says "You shouldn't have to game to get this rush. You shouldn't be out flirting with this incredibly attractive girl. Society says what you are doing is wrong and that once you have a girlfriend (as specially one for almost 5 YEARS) you shouldn't feel the need to do this ".

Is what I'm doing wrong? Am I just doing this because i have self-esteem issues (though, I don't think I do)? Should I delete my account burn my PUA books and go back to the way things were.

Is there a better way?

Who is zWingman and why is he not MY friend! What a life! Has a hot model gf, reads the game and has instant success with it, so much so that he can hook his buddies up with all the hotties while winging....

I want this life!

To answer your question z, we always want more, it's human nature. That's a choice you have to make. Do you settle for what you have, or sacrifice it and go for more?

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Thanks JaffaBeens its nice to know im not alone on this

and puaninja I'de wing you anyday of the week

Though I think your correct puaninja.... I had hoped that it didnt have to be a sacrifice! is it possible to have it both ways?

So I ask the community is there anyone else in the same boat? Can a man be a pua and in a committed relationship?

Wise words PUANINJA i'll have to think on that one . .

and

zWingman i guess it depends on the girl, like i know my ex's and they would of hate me chatting up/ thinking about other chicks, so depends on each others trust and love . .

but thinking back i think 'Mystery' was teaching students & doing night game with them but watching his seminars on YouTube, he had a girlfriend at the time he was talking about as his partner . . so i guess some girls can and will be ok with it? . .

Jaffa

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