Hi you all so, I am a woman and have a major crush on my female vocal coach. She has shown some signs of being open or bi- curious even and I am totally clueless what to do. I am married since 5 years and my husband has been encouraging me to explore this bi-side I have. I have never had a crush on a woman before and it is somewhat really overwhelming. So, I would appreciate any advice on how to approach this lady

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~LadyDay~

First of all, that's hot. I just wanted to get that out of the way

Your hubby is cool with it so that's a non-issue. Aside from that, this sounds like it's mainly about you coping with homosexual/bi-sexual feelings, which is not a pua-specific topic.

However, I've had some experience with a number of bi-sexual women, and bi-curious ones, so I kind of know what you are going through. As far as approaching your instructor, that's kind of tough, because it's similar to hitting on a person who is at their job. I have no idea what that person's opinion's are about being professional and not hooking up with client's but that could be a problem. So you want to find out their opinion on that before putting too much effort into seducing them.

If I was in your shoes, I'd wait till the end of a session and then when it's wrapping up start asking personal questions and flirting. You need to find out if she's single, if she's bi, and if she is willing to hook up with clients. Good luck, because that's gonna' be difficult I'd imagine.

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Thats just it. We share quite intimate hug everytime we meet. She looks at me in a certain way that I just know means something. Her eyes usually wander to my breast area and down to my hips and legs and I'm telling you, those looks are like touches! I have no clue how to flirt to her in that subtle way so it wouldn't be too creepy.

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~LadyDay~