Hey guys! Lately I've been off my game alot mostly due to college work and funds travelling for approaching, plus i'm not 18 yet to start gaming at night down the clubs. Although i'm trying to get back into the swing of things by doing approaches when i'm in town next and try to set up some dates.

I was thinking about my previous experiences when asking girls out on dates and I realized that usually girls I approach which I get their number, talk to me but when I ask them out somewhere they usually make some excuse saying that they are busy or they agree to hang out but cancel our plans either 3 to 1 days before our date. I don't know whether it was actually bad timing or they just don't want to come but my friend has gone through the same situation a few times with girls (He is into game to.)

I would like to hear your advice and experiences on this because i'm pretty sure we might be doing something wrong

Cheers guys!

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JimJam

If you hesitate, you masturbate.

You know what the difference is between guys like you (and there are a ton of guys like that) and pua's who get all the girls to do whatever they want?

You're entire goal is to get this girl to go on a date with you. Seasoned pua's don't even care about that. Sure, they might go out with a girl somewhere, but their game is focused right from the first interaction. They pretty much have the girl before they ever date her because they gamed her properly from the beginning.

A lot of new pua's and AFCs just focus on opening, number closing, taking off, then texting the next day to confirm a date. Well guess what? Most girls have caught on to that. They actually want a guy who is truly into them from the outset. They want to be feeling the guy before they even go on their first official date. That's why most veteran pua's don't even date! They don't need to! They just skip straight to the f-close. Now don't think that you can do that, at least not without developing your game first. But what I want you to take away from this is to focus on gaming the girl in that moment you have with her, and not just try to number close and set up some date later on. Girls are just too flakey for that sort of thing.

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Thanks dude, your posts are helping me out every little step. Much appreciated!

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Yours sincere
JimJam

If you hesitate, you masturbate.