So in a few hours i will be going to this girl's place. we will most likely be alone, since her sister will be going to her parent's. I'm planning on cooking some food for the both of us and enjoy a movie(horror one at that). I have never kissed before. any tips to escalate into kissing, or advice. By the way, this will be our 2nd date.

Kino. Kino. Kino.

Start off with light tapping on the shoulder. Then wrap your arm around her. Light touching at first, then get more firm (it comes with the courage). Then when your faces are getting closer, kiss her.

If you have a prolonged kissing, you can even try feeling her.

This is spot on

Also, it's 100% better to go for the kiss and fail, than NOT go for the kiss at all. If you go for it and fail, things will be weird for that night but back to normal for the rest of your time with her. If you don't go for the kiss at all, things could end up weird forever, and you'd end up FZed

Don't pressure yourself.. I remember my first kiss.. I was sweating and afraid as fuck. Personally, I hate routines.. but you can use this one.. Once you get there, tell her " Hey I got you something but I'll give it to you later." Then forget about this for a while. When she asks you about it later tell her " Open your hands and close your eyes". Hold her hand and kiss her! It's the second date so she should be ready for the kiss now!

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Hey KimPA, Idk about that. My ex girlfriend told me that this one guy did that to her in the past and she knew exactly what he was trying to do and it came off as really creepy. I say just aim at enjoying yourself and escalate via kino. That's it. If you feel yourself getting worked up and feeling negative, excuse yourself and tell yourself in the mirror this:

"You are awesome, people love you and respect you. You radiate Charisma, Charm, Intellect, and Wit. Talking to you is a privilege and you deserve the best that the world has to offer, just go out there and take it."

don't follow fucking escalation ladders

you do what you fucking feel in that moment

if you want to kiss here, just fucking kiss her

if you want her to suck your cock, fucking grab her hand and put her hand on it, then whip your dick out

That is most probably because that guy is an awkward pervert. If you do it right, it will work. Be confident and don't give a fuck about the outcome. I assume the OP know that he should escalate too.

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this.

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^^This, kino is really the only thing that matters, the more shes into it the more you'll feel comfortable with it. Ones that give me a good green light are doing things like putting your hands on her hips or a finger in her front pocket. generally I'll do the fingers in the pockets when we are standing face to face, I'll pull her closer by her pockets, or walking up behind her, your hands on her hips and looking over her shoulder is also very natural.


When you kino enough...trust me the kiss will happen.

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