Ok I'm 19 and have got myself in quite the pickle. Last year I went to a big party school and had the time of my life however I got arrested twice and my parents are making me stay at home for a year and go to a school close by, but I will be going back next year. So i decided that while home I was gonna be real bored so I might as well get myself in a fling to help make home more tolerable. I asked a girl a very attractive girl on a date and boom worked out perfectly. Now this is were I'm hurtin, I've been seeing her for a little over two months now and she is awesome which I did not expect because I get easily bored with girls. Sex is fantastic, she is a good girl (i:e not a whore) and I could hang out with her all day long. my problem is this is my prime of my life and I didn't plan on this escalating into something serious but I'm hooked. I've been delaying the official status but in reality are bf/gf I just don't wanna admit it. Idk what to do, because I will be going back to my school of choice next semester and I wanted to be single there because of the countless beautiful women but now I'm attatched. Anyone had a similar situation to this?

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Did you had the relationship talk already?

Up till you did not explicitly said to each other you are exclusive, you are NOT exclusive.

To avoid this kind of situations, you always have to be very clear from the beginning. Tell her at this point you prefer more to keep it casual and not rush into something serious. You will risk losing her, but if you want a fuck buddy (which is wat you want, reading your post) you will have to take the risk.

Do not lie to her. It is unhealthy for her but for you as well.

Tell her what you feel. Ask for clarification and make sure she gets the message and that you both know what you are up to.

Even if she is a great girl. If at this point in your life you want to be single, you need to be single.

My apologies i feel as if I came off wrong in my first post. Initially yes I was just lookin for a friends with benefits type of deal. But now I really like her and want more than that. Now I know the answer seems obvious, but more of what I'm asking is from someone who is older who has had a similar experience whether I should get tied down or will I regret it ya know?

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