So I had the worst case of the blue balls last thursday, this girls a hb 6.5 came over and I thought I had it in the bag (rookie mistake) and I feel that women instinctively know this. I created some rapport and only realized that I was still missing a few more rapport connections that made themselves evident in the bedroom.

I had her in bed, we heavily made out, but seeing as she was a 6.5, I wasn't totally immersed into having sex with her. At first I made sexual comments about what color her underwear was and she replied with "you aren't gonna know". I passed this first test. I eventually got checkpoint to checkpoint- i took off parts of her clothes, piece by piece- , but I felt that her ASD kept re-appearing and she kept trying to break state. In the end I fumbled when I pulled out the condom, lol. She once again stated "I am not having sex with you" and I just gave in (I wasn't that into her, as stated in the beginning).

Now, can some of you give me pointers on what to do next time to make things go smoother? Or is it just the rapport that I was missing?

At this point, just say "good" jump your ass up and plop it back down in front of the TV with a bag of Cheetos. Wait it out a bit, she will wonder WTF? And come around! Then start the make-out process over.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Something similar to this just happened to me, I had a girl in bed, making out she stops and says "I'm not having sex with you" I just looked at her and said "I don't expect you to" then got back into it, escalated more and 20 minutes later she was asking if I had any condoms. Just gotta make them comfortable and very horny.. From my experience at least.

'Meh, your probably shit in bed anyway.' Get up and do something leaving her there.

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Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted.

do NOT do this, this is stupid. Heywood is correct.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

lol it hapenned millions of times to me... If she really didnt want to have sex with you she would tell you in a way you would pull back in a second.. Out of all the girls that told me this line, only 1 was serious and I could hear it in her voice so I pulled back... The others... it just means keep trying.. dont bring the condom out like that... Let her ask for it...

So how I do it is take out their clothes one piece at a time... once you get to the pants maybe she says no.. you just say hey just this last one... they all complies if she don't put your hand into her pants and touch her, finger her... make her horny... then try again if she says no tell her just the pants so I can finger you easier... she'll comply if you did it right cuz she's horny right now... so when you take out the pants, you start fingering her whenever she tells you no... keep doing your things like if she didn't say anything I think it has to do something with them testing you how much balls you have or how much you really want her... Tell her how bad you want her. It's important to tell her that in her presence you can't control yourself cuz she makes you so horny.

Worse thing to do is to leave her and go somewhere else... just keep pushing unless she says a REAL no... you have to be able to tell the real nos from the nos that means keep trying. If you keep pushing and she keeps saying no after you put her almost naked and horny because you fingered her then stop and tell her whats her problem why she acting like that. Don't tell me its afc or whatever cuz I've done it and it works... I never had a girl says no to me that ended up not having sex with me.. Just this one who said No in a way that no other girl said... so I stoped... I found out after she was virgin that was why.