'Sup ya'll

I Basically just want to know how to deal with gold diggers.

like, how to spot them from a mile away, how to not get played/fooled by them but rather how to play them, how to know when she is about to use you etc

feel free to share an experience(s) with a gold digger

It depends really. Some of those gold diggers are experienced and know what to do. Most of them though, you can figure it out easily from first few meetings. From my experience, if a girl talks about money is not important while love, friendship, bla bla is the most important thing she is probably a gold digger. The smarter ones, pay for their own shit and play innocent at the start until they make you love them and they start demanding shit.. To deal with those, fuck them as soon as possible. Once you feel that is using you for your money, ditch her.

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People show who they are with what they wear. Our clothes, accessories are a billboard on us, you just need to decipher the clues. Many of them will have fake tits and a perfect body, people obsessed with artificial value focus on the aesthetics on themselves.

Gold digger women will be pretty obvious because they will look "expensive," fashion, purse, sunglasses, etc. They'll have wealthy apparel. There is really a difference.

They tend to have more condescending behavior, meaning they look down their nose at folks. They will show Paul Ekman's faces contempt and disgust, with regularity.

They tend to notice the little things, most gold diggers can smell money, your shoes, pants, etc. They know a guy with fashion vs. a guy who actually has money.

Edit: Oh yeah remember where you go will also give you certain types of people. If you go to a place with these aesthetically obsessed people you'll be more likely to run into them. The environment you choose certainly influences the type of people you will end up with, some places will make chance of gold digger more likely.

I'm not wealthy so I don't have to worry about experiences with them. As far as avoiding getting fooled simply don't invest money in them, don't tell them you have money, as far as I'm concerned my wallets and how much I make is none of their business. The basis of her attraction will be me and not my wallet.

You don't have to take a woman an huge date to "woo" her, it takes more you than the dinner you take her to(this doesn't mean take her to Denny's). What you do doesn't have to be expensive.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Gold diggers want to date money, not fuck money. If you meet a gold digger and you got no money you can still F-close, if you want a LTR different story maybe. If they say they want money it's usually a shit-test anyway.

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how do you deal with gold diggers?

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how do you spot a gold digger?
be observant, pay attention to the person you are interacting with, does she ask you to take her out and expect you to pay?, does she ask for favours involving money?, does she ask a lot of questions about your financial status?, did she show no interest until she saw some signs of money? (car/house/clothes etc.)

you can also consider how money concious a girl is too, just give her some of your money to spend on something, tell her to get herself something and get you something too, see how much of that money she spends, fairly good indicator of how she is with spending your money

honestly though, how could you possibly get ''played for a fool'' if you have personal boundries?, just don't do anything you don't want to do and the chance of being manipulated basically goes to 0

if you don't want to buy a girl something, just don't, if you don't want to date a girl who wants to spend your money... just don't

I don't know how you spot them but If i do spot one I play it like this:

"You're beautiful I wanna buy you a drink"
After that she's all over you. It's your moment of glory when u can say anything or do anything. After that I just give "buy" her a shot of water

Don't buy chicks drinks, for so many reasons.

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Good to see you back on this forum. I'm still using your online method

Haha yea i still use it too, good to hear man

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