So, I was at a home volleyball game and this super hot girl, on the other team was playing and I wanted to approach her after the game, But I couldn't do it because of My AA. I can talk to girls just fine that I have been introduced to before, but can't seem to be able to walk up to them and just talk. I was going to get her # by catching her before she left the game, but she walked off real quick and joined up with her parents. I had like 3 seconds to ask for her number and blew it. I know her name because are towns are close and pretty much everybody knows everybody where I live. I'm in high school so i have a long time to fix this AA problem, but it really pisses off and makes me hate myself for not at least approaching. She showed me a couple of IOI's as I believe because we made eye contact on 3 different occasions. I'm a JR and she is a SR so I really didn't want to get turned down and have my friends think im a joke.

I Could add her on FB since I know her name, but Idk if I should do that since I have never actually met her, I just have a friend who told me who she was.

I have a few questions tho about this.

1. Should I add her and Just say I saw at the game and wanted to talk to you or would that be creepy since I didn't get her name. Should I say something else?

2. If I should talk to her on FB, I don't think it will go too well because all my photos are from like 8th grade, since I hardly get on there. Should I find a way to Update?

3.Should I add her and pretend I was just scrolling along and saw her and had to add her?

Please guys if you can help me out, I just started this stuff a couple months ago and have only had two girlfriends. Both of which from my school.

I really hate that I didn't approach, but Hopefully there is another chance me if not
I guess oh well. Thanks for reading this any suggestions/tips would be highly appreciatied.

Since you're in high school the facebook add won't necessarily kill you in this case. High school game seems to be less involved on the personal approach and more forgiving on internet approaches. So many (too many) kids seem to use facebook as an initial conversation starter and a way to hit on girls.

However, however... I'd advise against it. Alot of guys may use it but it also gets them labelled as the creep who adds random people. The success rate wouldn't be too good.

I'm not sure whether you guys are in the same high school.. If you see this chick in the halls approach her than. "Hey (name), great game yesterday." or "Hey, you're (number of jersey) right? You were pretty good/You had that nice spike/something." or if something negative happened to her (bad serve, got hit in the face with a ball) you could always tease her about it.

What hurts (in terms of high school game) in your situation is the age difference. Again, from what I experienced it is pretty rare (not impossible!) for an older girl to go for the younger guy (in high school).

Personally, I don't add because I don't want people on my friends list that I don't know looking at my shit. That is my opinion. So, there is no right or wrong answer here.

Well Im kind of screwed if I don't add I won't see her in person again or at least for a very long while. But If I do add anyone know what I could say?

If someone you've never met sent you an add on Facebook, all their pictures were dated, and they wanted to meet up with you, would you oblige them?

I believe you should speak to someone on at least two separate occasions before sending them an add. Anything less is just socially jumping the gun. Have you ever gotten an add after meeting someone at just one party? Part of your brain goes, "Whoa, take it easy..." After seeing them twice, you can acknowledge there's a possibility of actually running into them again.

Take a look and see if you've got any mutual friends. Are you close with any of those people? If you are, they can help you meet her and you'll be able to make an impression.

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we have 88 mutual friends, so I think it would be alright to add.

do it

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